In His Own Words
About Him
Wir sprechen Deutsch...
and the Queen's English..
en Afrikaans... Die Taal.
I work in Germany but my home is Durban in South Africa and I'll return to Durban in 2022.
---
Be it known that I'm a cross-dresser. I'm not gay. I'm not bisexual. If you can deal with that then please read on...
You should get to know me because I'm honest, loyal and respectful of women. I'm broad-minded but of course I have likes and dislikes. I'm quiet, unassuming, stable, responsible and a hard worker with a good job. I do enjoy getting out into nature every now and then. I'm not given to macho displays of strength and power.
I'm a one-woman man and I'm here to find my life-partner, someone who'll walk next to me, not behind nor in front of me.
I like to travel, particularly when motorbikes are involved. Several cats humour me by letting me think I own them ;-)
I also have dogs.
Regarding my cross-dressing:
I admire femininity so much that I try to femulate.
I don't display silly over-the-top mannerisms or speak in a squeaky voice. My dressing-up occurs in private & behind closed doors but if I was to be invited to a Halloween Party...
So... why might you consider having a cross-dresser for a partner?
-You can have private slumber parties.
-If s/he wears a skirt it gives you easy access...
-S/he always envies you because s/he would rather be wearing what you are wearing.
-You can have a girlfriend & a boyfriend at the same time,
-S/he doesn't mind waiting while you get dressed to go out
-S/he'll even join you when you want to shop for shoes!
-If the sizes correlate you could have twice the wardrobe for half the price.
-Shopping is a lot more fun when there are two of you.
-The toilet seat will always be down!
Even with my hidden femininity I'm a worthwhile guy to have around: I can change your lightbulbs or fit the spare wheel to your car. :-)
---
Finally:
"A good man is hard to find" - WRONG!
And for the afrikaans speakers: 'n Man wat van katte hou sal goed wees vir sy vrou.
About His Ideal Match
You're slim, an animal lover & a healthy eater but like me you have your vices (Chocolate... wine... whiskey... marshmallows... bunny chow... whatever)
You are an outdoor person & nature-loving, honest, broad-minded, open-minded, tolerant, a live-and-let-live kind of person.
You're as comfortable in an evening gown as in jeans & takkies. You like people & socialising, but you also appreciate quiet evenings at home. And while we're on that subject, you know the difference between 'quiet' and 'quite'. And you're not allergic to cats, dogs, motorbikes, red wine, logfires or chocolate.
What His Friends Say
Sometimes_393 hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
Germany | |
Location: |
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Mauritius; Réunion; South Africa; Germany; India | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 63 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; German; Hindi | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher; Halaal; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium; Long; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A wicked satin teddy |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Dramas; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Cricket; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Rugby; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Stilt house in the jungle |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
