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Ostraka

61 – Southern Suburbs (Constantia), Cape Town, South Africa

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Online: 01 January 2024

Modified: 01 January 2024

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In His Own Words

About Him

I've seen and done a few things, and am about to see and do a few more. I'm educated and cultured but unpretentious. I don't need much stuff, prefer to live simply, and greet any person whatever their situation. I am a university qualified architect, went farming instead, and now write and make swords. I am a single dad for a couple of years more. After this, I might go farming again - Klein Karoo most likely. I have a great sense of humour once I feel comfortable, but I'm a bit shy with new people. I love meeting them though. I like nature and art, live music and I read plenty of non fiction. Right now I have a simple life centred around our home. I'd like to meet someone passionate, intelligent and confident who understands I can't at present be more than I am, a dad. I myself am sensual, and don't do the alone adult thing very well. Looking for a Girl. Friend. (Edit: I've been here 6 weeks without one meeting... so I'm serious and definitely not playing).

About His Ideal Match

I prefer beauty without makeup or styling - natural clear-faced femininity without pastiche. Positive, humorous, intelligent, interested and critically realist. Someone who I can talk to and be close to in silence also.

And I want to fall in love with you.

One note: Here, if you click "non-negotiable" for something trivial, I won't be able to contact you.

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Southern Suburbs (Constantia), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
61
Star Sign:
Capricorn
Height:
176cm (5' 9.3")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Hazel
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; German
Religion:
Atheist
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
20 - 50
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
150cm (4' 11.1") - 185cm (6' 0.8")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Grey
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No; Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other; Agriculture; Political
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Medium
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Hairy chest only
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Obscure
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Silly; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:
I'm most comfortable naked
Favourite Colour:
Other
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A music concert; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Folk; Heavy Metal; Latin; Reggae; Rock
Reading:
I enjoy it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Crime; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Documentary; Independent; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sport Involvement:
Bored to death
Sports:
Birdwatching; Camping; Fishing; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Running; Shooting; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I have to cook
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; German; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a week
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious Attendance:
Never
Dream Home:
Eco home in the bush
Politics:
Moderate
Retirement Plans:
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Extremely