In Her Own Words
About Her
I am short, and very sweet, I love reading, movies and just simply being romantic. I am quite intuitive and sensitive, with a fair amount of emotional intelligence :-) the partner that would interest me would be down to earth, funny, unassuming and comfortable in who he is, and will not be defined by what he does for a living. I love the simple things in life, but I also enjoy being surrounded by beauty, not necessarily material. Waking up with the sunlight streaming in through my bedroom window and a vase of freshly cut flowers on my dressing table and the fragrance of a lemon tree, growing very close to my bedroom window, with leaves almost falling into my room, a beautiful and tranquil garden, are simple pleasures that makes my world perfect. I am 100% woman, a little shy, but just enough to give you the chance to whoo me and discover yourself, in me, PERFECTLY BEAUTIFUL!!!
About Her Ideal Match
The partner that would interest me would be down to earth, funny, unassuming and comfortable in who he is, and will not be defined by what he does for a living. A kind hearted, forgiving and loving disposition would be the ideal, as well as someone who will accept me with all my baggage and drama, and would be willing to grow and enjoy the highs and lows that makes one grateful for all the wonderful things that life has to offer in all it's balance. I am not perfect, and if you are realistic about life and all it's imperfections, and have the will and energy to stay the course, then I must warn you, you will be rewarded in ways beyond your wildest dreams. I am honest about who I am, and would not ask for anything in a partner that I myself cannot live up to. I will love you more for your honesty and imperfections than you, trying to impress me by showering me with gifts and performing acts of valor, that you are not able to maintain. If you can't be comfortable with who you are, which would include your deepset fears and darkest secrets, and if you can't accept your family no matter how crazy or dysfunctional, and love them in spite of their craziness or lack thereof, then I am an illusion, just like the make believe life you are trying to lead. We exist interdependently, and cannot wish our lives better by living unconsciously, or in isolation. An open mind, that is present to its immediate experience of life, and is aware of the drama all around, and do not buy into its false pretense, is a mind at peace in itself.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl (Vredehoek), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
158cm (5' 2.2") | |
Body Type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Muslim | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Government | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Muslim; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A wicked satin teddy |
Favourite Colour: |
Gold |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Fast food; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Flirting; Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Loft in the city |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |