In His Own Words
About Him
I'm a Christian guy with a passion for a lot of things, including songwriting, travel, sport, making a difference and doing something important with my life. I've had mid-life crisis since I left school - it's one thing to be talented, but there's pressure and expectation attached, and I can often be caught up with the challenge of understanding and saving the world!
I'm typically quirky, intelligent and optimistic, and I get a conversation going with nearly anyone because of my broad range of interests. When I'm one-on-one, I'm more likely to be deep, serious and caring. Although I build my life on healthy values, I give people time and room to make mistakes. As a wholehearted believer in family, I invest my life in the happiness of those around me and I have the heart of a father.
I enjoy my IT work, as I'm more of a thinker than a handyman. My mind is constantly spinning with new ideas, and I just know that around the corner I'm going to start up the next big thing. I love being creative, but ultimately what drives me is to create value. I'd also like to release a CD and I enjoy leading worship at church and mentoring young people.
I follow God with all my heart - I'm well short of perfect and I don't expect to meet perfection, but I don't doubt that following the Bible leads to adventure and all the good stuff!
About His Ideal Match
I'm looking to meet a Christian girl with a gentle but bright spirit who looks for the good in every situation. Someone with the elegance of a lady, but who understands what it means to go the extra mile for others.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Hillcrest, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star Sign: |
Ask me later | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
24 - 34 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Gospel / Religious |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Game shows; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Making Music; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Chess; Cricket; Golf; Rugby; Running; Skiing; Soccer; Squash; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Power |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |