In His Own Words
About Him
He may not be the perfect knight in shining armour, but is on a noble quest to find the 'magical' spark that will ignite his heart. I am so tired of being on my own...I need a woman to walk beside me...to help me become whole again.
He believes himself to be pretty level-headed yet does have the tendency to sometimes be a romantic idiot! This is mainly due to the artist in his soul. But don't be misled he has depth and also seeks this in his friends and partners. In short he is a typical Capricorn - with a twist of creativity, passion and a large measure of loyalty to the mix.
The guy has been knocked around the block a few times and as a result is now well educated by the school of life. Fallen on hard times... and is in the process of picking himself up. He is a survivor, and will emerge from most negative situations with a positive philosophical attitude. Being uncomplicated and relaxed in most situations he mixes well with people.
Mature, creative (an artist and other things), open minded, attractive, in good physical shape and mind. He runs, plays tennis, cycles etc. Love challenges. At home in the outdoors but also a home lover.
Sometimes quiet but not introverted, in reality quiet when quiet is appropriate and extrovert if the occasion requires. A good communicator any time.
Humble - no one lower than he but stands equal to everyone. Mostly unassuming and dislike airs and graces.
Passionate, caring, romantic and sensual. Able to bring an adventurous and exciting level of fulfillment into intimacy with the right woman.
About His Ideal Match
Are YOU the spark that will ignite my heart?
Are you honest and open-minded? Do you know what you really want in a man? (Superman aside!) Have you come to realize that "perfect stereo-types" may not be the perfect fit for YOUR heart? Are you open-minded and know there could be a man that does not subscribe to common "menu-lists" -- that's meant just for you?
Are you assertive? Strong willed? Successful?- I'm not threatened! Having a warm feminine side would be great though! Have half a clue about what makes an intelligent male tick? Then we are meant for each other!
The right woman will easily bring out my very best and in turn I'll be her loyal friend, steadfast companion and lover.
Active, sporty, slim and attractive? Then that's great! BUT looks aren't everything - It's important however for her to want to be in her best shape - as I will for her!
A bubbling personality would be best to compliment my sometimes quieter moments. Share romantic times with, by the fireside, walking along a deserted beach, strolling along a path taking in the splendor of nature (NO REALLY I DO WANT THIS!). A special woman able to talk about anything and everything and ALSO ok to have silent time with. Friend and companion to do activities and sport with.
Although I ultimately seek a life partner, above all I'm seeking my best friend to have fun with. If the 'right' woman can be relaxed at a deeper intimate level, hopefully we would look at a permanent relationship. I DO NOT seek intimacy first! I seek my equal opposite, partner and friend. Intimacy is important - WHEN the time is right! SHE would then be passionate, uninhibited, adventurous, broadminded and caring - someone willing to explore a deeper mentally entwined intimacy and sensuality.
WOW! That does seem a tall order? We are all unique - perhaps you are none or only a few of the above - yet can ignite my heart! You COULD be that special SPARK my soul desires. Give it a go -- ignite my heart with your presence!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
73 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Balding | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
152cm (4' 11.8") - 179cm (5' 10.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Disappearing; It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Folk; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Sports: |
Athletics; Backgammon; Baseball; Birdwatching; Bowling; Bowls; Canoeing; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Darts; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Running; Sailing; Shooting; Snooker; Squash; Table Tennis; Tennis; Triathlon |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Honesty: |
Extremely |