In His Own Words
About Him
I'm open-minded. I'm fun to be with. I am sincere when the need arises and I'm an excellent listener. I have an emotional side to me that they would be able to relate to and I always try my best to relate to their circumstances and adapt to their emotional thinking. I'm highly intelligent as well.
"I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it -- I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know -- but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me. However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me. I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me. I am me, and I am Okay."
About His Ideal Match
She should be open-minded yet conservative and know what life is about. Sincere yet fun to be with. She should be able to take it slow and see how things unfold, yet she should not hold back. Funny, intelligent, sense of humor, smart, upfront (taking the lead). She should know what she wants and go after it or keep it.
I've had my fair share of heartbreaks and I've been through some pretty tough times, so I expect her to make it clear to me what she expects to avoid me unintentionally making mistakes that could have been avoided. I know what it's like having sleepless nights after being hurt by someone, so I need her to trust me in the fact that I would not hurt her intentionally in any way.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Government | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 41 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have cool side burns |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Realistic; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Honesty; Hope; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Going to the theatre; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Reading; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cricket; Motorsport; Rugby; Running; Soccer; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Honesty: |
Very |
