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33silversurfer33

46 – Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

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Online: 12 February 2024

Modified: 27 November 2023

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In His Own Words

About Him

I'm open-minded. I'm fun to be with. I am sincere when the need arises and I'm an excellent listener. I have an emotional side to me that they would be able to relate to and I always try my best to relate to their circumstances and adapt to their emotional thinking. I'm highly intelligent as well.

"I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it -- I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know -- but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me. However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me. I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me. I am me, and I am Okay."

About His Ideal Match

She should be open-minded yet conservative and know what life is about. Sincere yet fun to be with. She should be able to take it slow and see how things unfold, yet she should not hold back. Funny, intelligent, sense of humor, smart, upfront (taking the lead). She should know what she wants and go after it or keep it.

I've had my fair share of heartbreaks and I've been through some pretty tough times, so I expect her to make it clear to me what she expects to avoid me unintentionally making mistakes that could have been avoided. I know what it's like having sleepless nights after being hurt by someone, so I need her to trust me in the fact that I would not hurt her intentionally in any way.

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
46
Star Sign:
Cancer
Height:
175cm (5' 8.9")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Black
Ethnicity:
Ask me later
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Ask me later
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Government
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
18 - 41
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Facial Hair:
I have cool side burns
Body Art:
Pierced ears
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
A cruiser
Personality Traits:
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Realistic; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Devotion; Honesty; Hope; Patience; Self-control
Fashion Sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Going to the theatre; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul
Reading:
I enjoy it
Books:
Crime; Fiction
TV Habits:
I mostly use my TV for news or sport
TV Shows:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Reality shows; Sport
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie Preferences:
Action; Adult; Comedy; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Computer & video games; Reading; Writing poetry
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Cricket; Motorsport; Rugby; Running; Soccer; Wrestling
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Indian; Italian; South African
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Take Drugs:
Never
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Like):
Cat(s)
Turn-ons:
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Beach house
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Honesty:
Very