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TheBigValboski

43 – Durban (Glenwood), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

I have a maid. I have money. I just need a hunny...

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Durban (Glenwood), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
43
Star Sign:
Taurus
Height:
175cm (5' 8.9")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Ask me later
Marital Status:
Separated
Looking for:
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Ask me later
Drinking:
Ask me later
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Durban Metro (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
32 - 40
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 170cm (5' 6.9")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I have a maid, i have money. I just need a hunny.

i am a good guy. Problem is im not exactly what the media says a guy should look like or act like. Im kinda a pretty boy, im in touch with my feeling and my emotions. I hate beer, dont drink spirits and i find sport abhorrent, but love wine. Not into movies that much, love reading. I can cook better then any master chef (but i dont care for TV) and i am in the food industry. Im not fat and i know where im going. I have many layers and am a complex guy that does not conform to society norms because that is what's expected. (Some ladies might say i'm more like an onion cos i just make them cry. If i was an onion, however, I would be a French purple onion)

I was married but my wife began treating me badly and it became difficult. My business is important to me as that is what gives me my freedom. Its my hobby and its fun. Its like fighting a war without a gun. Diverse, different and daring. Keeps my mind working.

Im a romantic guy, but im also shy at first. like to get to know someone slowly. no rush. I believe in soul mates and chemistry, but i dont believe in the modern religion of science. Sorry people, there is no invisible gas thats going to kill us all unless we pay green taxes. (in the same way the ozone layer was not being depleted, or Y2K would destroy the world, or Saddam with his fictitious WMD's etc)
No conspiracy - just truthiracy
I love the mountains and the sun and the moon. Love the 4 seasons. I love snow and rain and fire to keep me warm. I eat meat and fish.
I am the bull.

About His Ideal Match

If you are a woman that still believes in love, knows something about good wine and food (not box wine or crap-donalds) and knows what she wants in life then contact me.
In your 30's is perfect. My weakness is a big smile. Someone that can think or reason for themselves and does not stare for hours on end at the idiots lamp. (The TV ... for those of you wondering what an idiots lamp is). Someone with strength and direction in their life, with purpose. Someone who's journey is exciting.

Please dont waste my time or your time if you think you are Kim Kardashian and act all bitchy. I'm not into bimbo's or youngsters. If that is you, MOVE ALONG. I'm not your sugar daddy, because you taste like artificial sweetener. I like an authentic, real and genuine honey. Only the best please.

I am not looking for anything, nor do i expect anything. If we like each others company, we can see each other more and see what develops.
I dont want my feelings played with. If you are not serious about finding someone special and want games, there are plenty a$$hole men out there looking for the same.

Do i believe in love? yes i do. Silly i know, but who knows. Where have all the good men gone? Where are all the quality woman? I guess we all search and hope that the next person we meet will be the 'one', or at least someone worth remembering.
Mutual respect and chemistry is what it is all about.

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Smooth
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Medium; Long; It has its moods
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Puerile
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
Anything, as long as it's black
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Music Preferences:
Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World
Books:
Business; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction
TV Shows:
Nature/Wildlife
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet
Sports:
Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Fishing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Mountain biking; Orienteering; Pool; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Surfing; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Disorganised
Time at Work:
I work only a few hours a week
Pastimes of choice:
Gardening
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Bored to death
Animals:
I like animals
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm separated
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Power; Tattoo(s)
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Religious Attendance:
Never
Retirement Plans:
Sipping margaritas on a beach
Politics:
Conservative
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited; Jaded