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dukess

42 – Grahamstown, Eastern Cape, South Africa

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Online: 18 June 2017

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Grahamstown, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
42
Star Sign:
Capricorn
Height:
175cm (5' 8.9")
Body Type:
Curvaceous
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Auburn
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Other
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Friends
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Teacher / Professor
Income:
Enough

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
33 - 41
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
177cm (5' 9.7") - 186cm (6' 1.2")
Body Type:
Average; Athletic; Large
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

Every person you have ever encountered and had the grace to love, was 'the one', the 'soul mate', the person who provided you with the time to get to know yourself better; to see you through different eyes!

In the madness of searching, searching, searching, one forgets the ultimate search is really to find you, or more esoterically the divine within you. To be with someone who encourages you to be more of you, without artifice, restriction or succumbing to bitterness during the trials is a blessing. And when the road you've been travelling diverges be grateful and appreciative of the gifts the person has left you with.

Any person worth knowing has depth, has reflected on life's ups and downs, has lived! Am I someone worth knowing? Who knows ...

I laugh easily, enjoy walking the dogs on the beach, and being at home. My music tastes are eclectic and I am blissed out when dancing. I read often, and though gregarious, am also an introvert. I am comfortable being alone ... maybe too comfortable.

About Her Ideal Match

I am not looking for a partner, husband, boyfriend, significant other etc. RIGHT NOW!

I would just like to meet a friend -- a man with sincerity, integrity, strength, charm, honesty and a laugh that shakes his entire being. A complex individual who has moods, loves life, ponders the imponderables, smiles often, breathes ...

I appreciate honesty ...

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Curly; Wild; It has its moods
Body Art:
Pierced ears
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter
Music Preferences:
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga
Sports:
Chess; Hiking; Horse Riding; Swimming; Walking; Weight training
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
Once or twice a week
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
There's nothing better
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power; Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Beach house
Religious Attendance:
I'm non-practicing
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Honesty:
Extremely