About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About Him
I'm not going to like most, try to sell myself. I have certain values, that's who I am, if you can identify with them then lets chat further.
Want to meet people that value me as a person and my values, as the basis for anything more.
So whether I live in a mansion, holiday in exotic parts of the world, drive a Ferrari or live in a hut, drive a hillbilly 1940's car and holiday in my neighbors back yard, is meaningless in the bigger scheme of life. I will fall in love with a person for their human qualities, not with their material possessions or their future dreams and desires.
It's amazing, how people put up lists of their instant gratification desires and then expect to find happiness chasing these. After its achieved then what?? .. you back online ??
When one actually analyses these lists, it's purely short term used to fill their time on earth or used to converse with other short sighted people - "I've been there and I've done that".
I live my life with a proven believe that, the place, the things (Branded or otherwise) and the activities (Thrill-seeking or otherwise), mean nothing. It is purely the company you sharing the experience with that matters the most (meaningful, sincere, company)
I seek someone who is mature and knows how they want to live their life.
Someone who knows the meaning off and also values the following: Honesty, Faithfulness, Sincerity, Humility, Partnership.
I will respect you as a person, your thoughts, your crazy ways, your crazy desires, over and above everyone else ... for one simple reason alone ... because you will be the most important person in MY world, provided off course we both have or support each other's values. Break that and don't expect me to still respect you. (It's simply too difficult to truly love another who does the things you hate / things that go against your values of life).
The extent of my sales pitch is:
For the one I fall in love with, I will travel the world, give up on all material things, cherish you in all aspects over and above anyone else,.
About His Ideal Match
A person who has their own values, true to them, able to priorities them, able to communicate them.
Your past is the past, everyone has some baggage I do not judge anyone, it's who you are now and where you headed that will define if we compatible or not.
It is the present moment that defines you and your future, yes that fleeting split second in terms of how you treat others defines who you truly are, and how your future relationships will develop.
So my ideal match will actually just be herself, nothing more, nothing less, honest within herself and with me.
All things said and done, we are all human, we all live in a socialistic world,
Yes, nobody is perfect, I do like nice things as we all do ... it makes life easier ... but am not looking to attract a partner based on this ... My point is, I will not compromise my values for nice things, meaning, me as a person will never change regardless if I drive a Ferrari and live in a mansion or if I cycle and live in a hut. It is how you maintain what you have that actually matters.
Understand, I don't mean you should not possess any drive, or have any material desires in life ... you should definitely have these ... I'm saying you need to have your priorities in order, and willing to enjoy the comforts I / you / we already possess, or work towards these comforts WITH ME as a partnership, without comprising your values, my value and our relationship values.
I want first and foremost to find my partner, then we both can develop a plan for the future, how we choose to spend our future will be a choice we both make as a couple. Be it traveling the world, tucked away in the middle of a remote island watching the waves or the sun set, chasing material goals, or whatever ... the idea is we create memories and share a closeness that will outlast time itself.
If you can identify with the above .... I would love to get to know you !! ;-)
What His Friends Say
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More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My Armani suit / My Versace dress |
Favourite Colour: |
Silver |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Gambling; Gardening; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cricket; Cycling; Darts; Motorsport; Squash; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
