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naturalhigh

60 – Grabouw (Overberg), Western Cape, South Africa

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Online: More than 6 months ago

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In Her Own Words

About Her

Gutsy, resilient, creative, whimsical, spontaneous, intense, whacky humour, tad quirky, tender, caring, honest to a fault, no-nonsense gal - like a wholesome full-flavoured fruit salad! I always seek the silver lining behind dark cloud, & enjoy the challenge of overcoming adversity.

Have thus far enjoyed a relatively full & adventurous life.

Outgoing, yet relish quiet times/being in the moment. Enjoy party now & again, but prefer home-made meals with good company & home comforts.

Diplomacy/brevity not my strong suit, known to call a 'spade a spade'. Don't mean to sound arrogant, but don't suffer fools/jerks gladly. If your ego won't handle an amateur DIY diva, please DO click 'next'!

Not repeat interests etc [see below]. Have passion for sustainable living - busy developing various 'eco-friendly' projects to achieve good level of self-sufficiency, also nurturing food-producing flora. Prick me, I bleed green [but not behind my ears]! Love freshly-picked harvest from my micro 'urban farm'.

Have not had much chance to "explore romance" 2007-2016 since I was home-caring my vulnerable mother [now 91] in my space-limited home! Period of 'mummy-minding' has given me good insight into the 'parenting experience' & provided training necessary to develop resilience/compassion/empathy to 'grow old' with someone special! Been getting my life back on track in past 2 years due to my relocation to a fixer-upper "cottage in the country". Also been adopted by a gorgeous (abandoned) tom cat, who loves showing me affection..which makes him my "joy-boy" :-)

Generally, my hands-on daily routine of tending to my multitude of food-producing "green dependents" means i have limited time to engage in extensive socialising/online communication.. so i reserve these moments for well-matched connections. Should I not respond, please don't feel offended, & likewise!

PS Photos taken over past decade on various travels

About Her Ideal Match

Being inter-dependent, I'd welcome a like-spirited, green-thumbed 'best friend' with similar passion/dedication, to share decision-making/ maintenance of this rewarding lifestyle.

For me, a good romantic match needs to have that X-factor..also EQ, IQ, spiritual connection, common interests/values & chemistry to resonate, for the way forward to look promising.

So a good match for me would be a young-at-heart gentle giant, who is a flexible handy practical outdoorsy animal- & nature- lover, who doesn't sweat the small stuff.. but can stand up for what's the right thing to do... Which means he has a good moral compass, knows the difference between being protective & controlling, has the gift of remaining calm & optimistic, keeps the sunny side up..
... he's basically a non-chauvinistic, non-OCD type.. a loyal stable reliable honest decent, good 'all rounder' who can afford to step away from the 9-5 coal face..to enjoy time-out in 'off the beaten' track natural beauty. Or do some adventure travel.

For me, common interests means that he wants to share my pro-healthy planet passion, so he also enjoys a strong interest in food gardening, leading a low-carbon lifestyle which mitigates climate change, promotes self-sufficiency & sustainable living.. in essence he likes being a permaculture practitioner.. along with all its creative wackiness.

If sense of connection is mutually felt, there's no harm in seeing where this leads. [For me, connection & chemistry are not the same thing]. Chemistry is either 'present' or it's not, not to be taken personally.
And if 'romantic resonance' feels like pressure, good news is I'm happy to expand my platonic friendships.

PS mean no disrespect, but i'm not into facial hair..

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About Her

Country of Origin:
Namibia
Location:
Grabouw (Overberg), Western Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
60
Star Sign:
Taurus
Height:
180cm (5' 10.9")
Body Type:
Curvaceous
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; Dutch; German
Religion:
Christian / Other
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Enough

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in Europe
Location:
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
45 - 59
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
180cm (5' 10.9") - 203cm (6' 7.9")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; White; None (Bald); Balding; Shaved
Eye Colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Norwegian; Portuguese; Spanish; Swedish; Other
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Norwegian; Portuguese; Spanish; Swedish; Other
Religion:
Agnostic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Executive / Management; Legal; Retired; Self-employed; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other; Agriculture
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Long; Straight; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
Pierced ears
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Goofy
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock; World
Reading:
I love it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Talk shows
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Woodworking; Yoga
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Birdwatching; Bodyboarding; Camping; Chess; Cycling; Dancesport; Fishing; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Mountain biking; Rock climbing; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Water skiing; Weight training; White water rafting
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
Other
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
Once or twice a week
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Closeness:
My friends are my main family
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Politics:
Moderate
Retirement Plans:
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely