alfieguy1

43 – Johannesburg (Hyde Park), Gauteng, South Africa

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Johannesburg (Hyde Park), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
43
Star Sign:
Pisces
Height:
186cm (6' 1.2")
Body Type:
Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Other
Eye Colour:
Hazel
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Agnostic
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Regular
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Randburg; Sandton; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
23 - 40
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
164cm (5' 4.6") - 179cm (5' 10.5")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Where does one begin! Maybe with what I hate, well not hate, hate is such a strong (yet negative emotion). How about my dislikes, what I like about dislikes, is that with a strong enough argument you can still get to appreciate them for a little while, before they become so uncontrollably irritating that you have no choice but to hate the aforementioned 'dislike'.

So maybe I shouldn't mention those either! I generally, in truth, try to give everything the benefit of the doubt (and everyone) the premise being, I will believe it to be right until 'it' proves me wrong, or screws me over, or makes me sad. An example of this: i once was a great lover of walking barefoot. I gave the experience a huge benefit of the doubt even though my feet always felt vulnerable. that is until the day I stubbed my toe and lost my nail in the process. I now always walk with reinforced steel toe capped work boots, even if it is only from the bedroom to the bathroom.

the heading of this section is "Why should people get to know you?" I think I have missed the point of this little exercise so far!

OK here goes again! I am a relatively, some people say moderately, others say boringly interesting individual. I have a job I love, most people think its a VERY (make sure you read the last word with a strong inflection on the entire word) interesting job. I have a good life, with the normal, or sometimes abnormal trials and tribulations that affect most of the human race.

I am one of those good guys, I think. someone once was comparing me to an animal, i tried to convince him that I was like a tiger, he ummed and aahed a bit and then after much deliberation and a fair amount of nodding he turned to me and said, " Dude, i would like to say, you are like a tiger, but I can't. No, no i would have to say that you are more like a labrador. you are dependable and nice."

so there you have it... there is more though...

About His Ideal Match

I am looking for someone who is bright and fun and sexy. Someone who is not scared to have a good debate, but is chilled enough to not want to fight about inconsequential stuff. I am looking for someone who lives for the moment and doesn't make concrete plans for the future (things change) I am looking for someone who is as happy chilling for a day on the couch, watching DVD's as they are trying out a new thing like scuba diving. the most important bit of all is someone who is independant and is not scared to have their own life.

[removed] if i make you a favourite, its cos i think I like you and i would like to get to know you better.[removed]

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short; Wild
Body Art:
A tattoo or two
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Fast food; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Photography; Reading; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Backgammon; Cricket; Pool; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snooker; Snorkeling; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time Online:
Once or twice a week
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV Habits:
There're several shows I watch regularly
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Current Relationship:
I'm in the middle of a divorce
Reading:
I enjoy it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Fish
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Cabin in the mountains
Religious Attendance:
Never
Retirement Plans:
Backpacking around the globe
Politics:
Very Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely