In Her Own Words
About Her
I am friendly, kind and generous. I can go happy to livid to happy in a blink of an eye - like Hades in the Hercules cartoon.
I spend most of my free time in a jiu jitsu academy, still a beginner, but I'm addicted. Other things I enjoy is racing cars, reading, puzzles, reading and writing, and dance (I'm an ex-ballet dancer).
Things I hate includes being in the sun, spicy food, people who don't like animals, posh people, someone telling me what to do (especially when it comes to driving - never tell me how to drive unless you are a trained driver), lies, omissions of truth, manipulation, narcissists (I'm old, I've had my fill of that crap).
About Her Ideal Match
Good sense of humour, feel no need to control/change/manipulate me - I am who I am. Someone who enjoys martial arts, racing cars, shooting guns, paintball, and decent partner during a zombie apocalypse. But also someone who understands I don't want to be active all the time, sometimes I want to chill at home. Have to love animals, especially cats. And someone who will be OK with it if I'm better than them at something. We all have our talents and I want someone who can be proud me and the things I'm good at instead of jealous. And I don't ask men if they are single, I ask if there is anyone who might be under the impression you might have, or might start a relationship. I'm done being the backup bitch.
What Her Friends Say
SuLing hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
158cm (5' 2.2") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Red | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
Dutch; English | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 186cm (6' 1.2") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have a mental condition |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Heavy Metal; Opera; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Motoring; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Business news; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Gambling; Gardening; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Dancesport; Gymnastics; Martial arts; Motorsport |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing absolutely nothing |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Nervous; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Extremely |