In His Own Words
About Him
I’m kind, gentle, understanding, compassionate, sometimes funny, sometimes wise, with a philosophical and spiritual outlook on life. Passionately curious about everything.
I’m involved in the creative professions as a freelance Graphic Designer and Musician, and have a great (probably obsessive) love of music, especially Jazz.
But: I don’t want to be just your boyfriend, partner or lover - so what on earth am I doing here?
I want to find kindred spirits - those creative, mathematical, philosophical, grown-ups - possessed by a childlike wonder at the unfolding magic of creation.
I want to fall in love with the unique and particular thing that is you, inclusively and generously, in a way that doesn’t need the physical for intimacy but that doesn’t exclude its appreciation.
I’m more concerned about a love affair with ideas than with simple romance;
With ideas that connect and enlighten, that make better people of us.
I’m not so much looking for steamy infatuation than a delight in the power and magic of words and concepts to create understanding, to describe passion and create intimacy.
I know you are rare, but I know you’re there. I’ve met some of you already. And I do play for keeps.
Spelling it out, in a step-by-step kind of way:
1. We connect here; because there is something mutually intriguing in our profiles;
2. We chat online for a bit, and then arrange -
3. To meet for coffee, a walk in the park, a live chat, a correspondence - or whatever that suits our fancy;
4. And experience a chemistry (or not) like no other;
5. Resulting in a magical, affectionate, fond, empathetic, harmonious, familiar, intimate, companionable, benevolent friendship which will go on for ever:
6. because we will never have to break up.
Please.
Really hope you’ll talk to me.
About His Ideal Match
Be real, be daring, be different, be quirky - embrace complexity, understand the paradox.
A love of magic would be good - the kind that lets you see below the surface, perceive more than is visible at first glance; more beauty, more potential, other possibilities, a new way;
Especially the magic of words with the power to build, to reveal, to fulfil.
I hope you're non-judgemental and gracious in your attitude towards those that are different or have different ideas to you, without feeling that that would be an assault on your own hard-won beliefs.
You live by a high moral code not as a defense mechanism but as the source of your inner strength, something that allows you a wry smile at your own fallibility.
Passion and curiosity keep you going.
Just talking about it all is fine with me.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Randburg (Bordeaux), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
74 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Grey | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Partnered | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 74 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Folk; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Basketball; Hiking; Ice Skating; Sailing; Snooker; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
