In Her Own Words
About Her
I am on a journey of unconditional self love and acceptance. I believe once we can give to ourselves what we really need, can we share that with others. I seek adventures of the soul:-) and challenge myself to see the best in others. I embrace all aspects of life with an open mind and a curious spirit. Humans fascinate me and it is this fascination that allows me to seek meaningful conversations, enjoy retreats in nature and moments of stillness that encompass the full human experience.
One of my motto's is: Change in not 1 big event, change is a series of intentional steps-and this is one of them!
About Her Ideal Match
I value someone who has different strengths and brings something different to the relationship. One of those is someone who is astute with finances. I am looking for someone who has spent time discovering who they are as a person and what matters to them. It is important that they are anchored in their spiritual journey and are committed to learning and growing throughout their life experience. I would like to share moments travelling, building a family, and celebrating our union. Life is fun when you have someone who is willing to compromise and reciprocate the same energy of love, giving and nurturing one another in a way that promotes growth.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Alberton, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
152cm (4' 11.8") | |
Body Type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
English; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Alberton (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
33 - 47 | ||
Star Sign: |
Gemini; Leo; Sagittarius; Aquarius | ||
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | ||
Home Language: |
English; Sesotho; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Optimistic; Outgoing |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Pink |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Gospel / Religious; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; Religious; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Photography |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cycling; Hiking; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Italian; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
