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The_New_Man

65 – Helderberg (Winelands), Cape Town, South Africa

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The_New_Man

65 – Helderberg (Winelands), Cape Town, South Africa

Truly expressive man... I know my emojis...

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In His Own Words

About Him

I live a full, wonderful and exhilarating life. I am happy to share that... but only in the presence of pure feminine intent. My occupation is beyond your wildest imagination... every woman's dream man.

Seriously though, I earnestly want to be around family (Both yours and mine)... a home filled with peace & love, children & dogs & whirling appliances... laughter, barking, shrieks of delight... balls bouncing, identifiable footsteps on wooden floors. Celebrations: birthdays, anniversaries, seasons, fudge day, cleavage day, family awards. To celebrate one of "us" or life itself. A busy home filled with flowers, veggies, furniture & foods; that I grew- or made for those loved inside it. I want to be with a girl that when we're apart; whether she's on the other side of the world or just in the room next door, we miss each other equally!

I receive all of you as woman. Not just your delicious bits but your mind, moods, whims, strength, feminine resolve, elegance & grace. I want the balance & imbalance you bring. I want the merging & mingling of our differences to result in both intellectual rhythm & spiritual perfection through sacred intimacy.

I’ll read your narrative here to try feel the warm depth of feminine essence through your use-, inflection & truth of your words. If I respond, I'm truly extending my hand out to you. So, I ask, for one moment, forget self-defeating gender roles. Reach back if there is something even mildly beautiful to you. Fear’s cold gift can only be- & always is; regret. If nothing else, I promise you truth, I will share deep love, I will always challenge you but simultaneously nourish your confidence & growth.

I am in awe of my Creator.

Mom will love me to bits... Dad will finally breathe a huge sigh of relief. Hopefully, your children: "He's the best thing to have ever happened to our Mother"

About His Ideal Match

I want effortless, joyfulness, playfulness. No drama ever, rather constructive-, academic- & nourishing exchange. Love sets free... so neither would seek to own, win, control or possess.

I know everyone has gone through things that have changed them in a way that they could never go back to being the person they once were; I accept that. It's happened to me. But skip me if you're even mildly bitter toward men. However, know that I'll kiss your scars, those on your body & those in your heart. Love is your life's priority over transient & fickle comfort. Don't mind quirky. Quirky's good. Like giggling at my girl's mildly embarrassing non-inhibition, endearing mannerisms & funny eccentricities. She's unusual, alive & incandescent!

You'll take my breath away with just a glance across an antique bookstore, a knowing smile at dinner, a cheeky wink whilst quarrelling or the most unladylike suggestion whispered during Swan Lake. Your soft kiss will leave me feeling like I'd been injected with pure oxytocin. You'd be able to share uninhibited, deep and endless tantric hedonism with me - Oh yes! (Exclaimed in a breathless whisper, loaded with exci....tation)

You laugh & smile, even in difficult times. Possesses absolute honesty, emotional maturity, self-confidence & a genuine sense of fairness. Vanity, self-centeredness, narrow mindedness, class awareness & mercenary motives send me running. You know the art of giving but of receiving graciously as well.

I will appreciate & respect you for your talents, gifts and perfections but I will truly love & treasure you more for your weaknesses, foibles & flaws. You'd always know you're cared for, safe & loved. My soul- my arms, are exceptionally welcoming, warm & strong. So if it is you, come sit quietly beside me now. Open my hand & see your name written. Exquisite redamancy awaits... The most beautiful of human conditions. Bliss.

PS: On the very important issue of trust... please don't ever leave me alone in a room with your tea cozy... I will try it on!

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Helderberg (Winelands), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
65
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
174cm (5' 8.5")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair Colour:
Shaved
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Christian / Other
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Friends; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Ask me later

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
45 - 65
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
144cm (4' 8.7") - 180cm (5' 10.9")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
It has its moods
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
I don't have one
Intelligence:
Intellectually Challenged
Party Behaviour:
A wallflower
Personality Traits:
Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:
Something my (grand)mother made me.
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Rock
Reading:
There's nothing better
Books:
Business; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
Interests:
Auto repair; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Archery; Cycling; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Chinese; Indian; Italian; South African
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Out of control
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time with the family
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've lost count
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Honesty:
Extremely