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The_New_Man

60 – Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Truly expressive man... I really know my emojis!

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
60
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
175cm (5' 8.9")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Shaved
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Christian / Other
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Ask me later

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
40 - 64
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 183cm (6' 0.0")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Disabled; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Please try to see beyond those nasty little red crosses today. Look for what telegraphs my boy soul's presence, intellectual depth, character & masculine warmth.

“Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get - only with what you are expecting to give - which is everything”. So, if undeserved- and provided material comfort is set as a priority and filter, then it cannot be love that one seeks here.

Read my sincere desire to receive all of you as woman. Not just your delicious bits but your mind, your moods, your whims, your strength, your feminine resolve… your grace… your concerned impute. To receive the simple innocence of your warm expressive touch (With no predictable male response). I want the balance and imbalance you bring as woman… I want the merging and mingling of our differences to result in both intellectual rhythm and growing spiritual perfection.

Know I miss you so much; While walking, I whispered how loved you were (To be). On a long trip recently, I looked to your empty seat and ached for you to be there and just chat away... To loudly sing together to the radio. It rained, I was so frustrated because you weren’t there for me to kiss your warm wet lips. The full moon streamed into my bedroom window, I thanked you softly for all you’d bring into my life, for all the joy and pleasure you were still to bring. I long to share these intimacies.

Please accept I’ll read your narrative to try feel the warm depth of your feminine essence through the use- and inflection of your words. If I respond and "fan" you, it’s not a game, I truly am extending my hand. Thus, I would ask, for one moment, forget self-defeating gender roles… Reach back if there is something even mildly beautiful here. Fear’s cold gift can only be- and always is; regret. If nothing else, I promise you truth, I will share deep love, I will always challenge you but simultaneously nourish your confidence & growth.

Reach out and show me your strength...

About His Ideal Match

I know everyone has gone through something that has changed them in a way that they could never go back to being the person they once were... I accept that... It's happened to me. But skip me if you're even mildly bitter toward men. However, know that I'll kiss your scars... those on your body and those in your heart. Love is your life's priority over transient & fickle comfort. Don't mind quirky. Quirky's good. Like giggling at my girl's mildly embarrassing non-inhibition, endearing mannerisms & funny eccentricities. She's unusual, alive & incandescent!

She'll appreciate me reminding about her "girlie" things (Hair, pap, wax, mammogram...) - welcoming my involvement & support. My boy soul must, to sense belonging. Oneness. She'll take my breath away with just a glance across an antique book store, a knowing smile at dinner, a cheeky wink whilst quarrelling or a most unladylike suggestion whispered during Swan Lake. Her soft kiss will leave me feeling like I'd been injected with pure oxytocin. She shares deep and endless tantric hedonism with me - Oh yes! (Exclaimed in a breathless whisper, loaded with exci....tation)

She laughs and smiles, even in difficult times. Possesses absolute honesty, emotional maturity, self-confidence & a genuine sense of fairness. Vanity, self-centeredness, narrow mindedness, class awareness & mercenary motives send me running into the night. She's learnt not only the art of giving but of receiving graciously as well.

I will appreciate and respect you for your talents, gifts and perfections but I will truly love & treasure you more for your weaknesses, foibles and flaws. You'd always know you're cared for, safe & loved. My soul - my arms, are exceptionally welcoming, warm & strong. So if it's you, come sit quietly beside me now. Open my hand & see your name written there. Exquisite redamancy awaits... The most beautiful human condition. Bliss.

PS: On the very important issue of trust... please don't ever leave me alone in a room with your tea cozy... I will try it on!

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
It has its moods
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
I don't have one
Intelligence:
Intellectually Challenged
Party Behaviour:
A wallflower
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:
Something my (grand)mother made me.
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Rock
Reading:
There's nothing better
Books:
Business; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
Interests:
Auto repair; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Archery; Cycling; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Chinese; Indian; Italian; South African
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Out of control
Time at Work:
I DO have a bed in my office!
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time with the family
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've lost count
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Bird(s)
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Honesty:
Extremely