In His Own Words
About Him
HELP ME i'm frustrated !... Ok, Firstly, I need to be blatantly honest here and if you`re not happy with what you are reading then rather pass-by! There has got to be a woman out there who is not afraid to admit to her true needs and desires?.. I'm a white married guy and what I'm doing is wrong I know so don't go there!, I'm looking for a woman lover, not just a once off, a more meaningfull VERY discreet relationship where the 2 of us can just "let go" without the pretences and airs and graces that have to be the norm in a normal marriage! Do you know where I'm going with this?, So come on you out there and lets chat and do the coffee thing and see if the animal attraction is there. I gaurantee total discretion and cleanliness and expect the same always! Not a hoax add so please no hoax replies. thanks for reading now take the "plunge". Oh and please don`t tell me what I`m doing is wrong, I know that already! I can keep a secret forever, can you? Nobody needs to ever know, this is a request for a mutually satisfying relationship, if you`re not up for it please don`t judge/critisize/make silly remarks, better to be brutally honest as I am here, Hopefully chat soon.
About His Ideal Match
She should be in a similar predicament to mine. Not "unhappy" at home yet is missing the TLC and more that could just make her life more "complete". She needs a "friend", someone to offload to, someone to share her frustrations. She does not in anyway want to ruin her present situation and also needs the discretion that is important to her situation. Oh and daytime availability would be a bonus and "less obvious" for this kinda relationship? Can you keep a secret? forever? nobody ever needs to get hurt or exposed here. I don`t judge, neither should you. She must be brutally honest too in her replies and questions, better that way.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Jeffreys Bay (JBay, Humansdorp, SFB.), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
198cm (6' 6.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Married | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
21 - 52 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 186cm (6' 1.2") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Married | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Friendliness; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
Ask me later |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Honesty: |
Very |