In Her Own Words
About Her
Here's a story about me: A man made contact with me here but the message it was only an 'at' sign so I think it was a contact detail. I replied with a one liner, and then he replied with "But you're enormous? Do you really think I want to be with a beached whale?" Can you imagine the cruelty you have to have in your heart to go out of your way to attack someone who has confessed to the world that she's sad and struggling? I stated in my profile I am a chubby lady so not to catfish anyone, but this man saw a vulnerability and went out of his way to insult me. This is a good example of what I've been given my whole life.
I am a weary young lady that seeks her prince charming. I've been working since school, for good people, but it's a dead-end job and I need a big change.
I'm an introvert, soft-hearted, I cry when yelled at. I have depression, I tend to stress about everything, so stability is important to me. These issues make it hard to be a functional working adult. I do my best, but I'm too weak for this world. I know this sounds strange in a world obsessed with a false feminist narrative, but I've matured enough to realize that I don't belong in the workplace. I'm a soft bean that needs a safe nest.
I am a chubby lady, please don't overlook this and be upset later. I have some dental issues I am self-conscious about.
I'm not a party person. I love fantasy movies and series and books. My dream is to write novels, I am currently working on one!
I love animals, HATE animal cruelty. I have a sense of humour. I love peace and quiet. As long as there's an internet connection, I'm happy. I don't really dabble in social media, it's exhausting.
I love discussing philosophy and psychology. Also the supernatural and aliens. I'm not religious, but I do often speculate about the meaning of it all.
Children are expensive and an important responsibility, but I'd be glad to provide them if my husband can properly provide for me. I come from a poor home, it's made me humble and very money conscious.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm looking for a mature man with his life in order to marry me and take me away to start a new life.
He needs to be financially secure but I mean no disrespect to men who aren't!! Please don't misunderstand, I don't seek status or flashy things. I only seek the stability and security it provides.
Someone assertive and responsible in life, a man who enjoys being a provider and a protector. I literally don't care if you're much older than me or what you look like, I don't care if you are dedicated to your job and away from home a lot, I don't care if you snore or are as hairy as a Sasquatch, as long as you're a good man looking to settle down with no drama. I seek a man that will take care of me, but I understand it's not for everyone.
I don't mind if we have different interests than me. You don't have to change for me, just be there for me. I've very green behind the ears in the love department, but I do know I would like to have one man for the rest of my life.
I am open to moving, I am even open to immigrating for the right man. My only baggage is that I am a package deal. I live with my mother and grandmother and a few beautiful cats, I cannot leave them behind. They're all I have, and when they're gone I'll be alone.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
31 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") | |
Body Type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
28 - 100 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Wrestling |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |