In Her Own Words
About Her
Alles gebeur met ñ rede... niks is toeval nie. Die glas is ALTYD halfvol... Die lewe is wat jy daarvan maak.
Ek weet wat ek wil hê. Ek weet waarna toe ek op pad is en hoe om daar te kom. Ek is baie selfstandig en is nie iemand wat sit en wag dat iemand dinge vir my moet doen nie. Ek werk vir wat ek wil hê.
Ek is 'n enkelma en ek is fine daarmee. Elkeen soek liefde en geluk,maar dit is NOOIT ten koste van my kind nie. My seun kom altyd eerste in my lewe en die persoon wat ek as my lewensmaat kies sal dit verstaan en respekteer.
Ek is baie lief vir dans, musiek, buite lug en lees. Ek kom skaam voor as ek jou nie ken nie, maar sal later ontspan en dan hou ek van gesels.
Ek is baie lief vir intelligente geselskap. En hou daarvan om verskille te bespreek en uit te redeneer. Een ding waarvan jy kan seker wees... as ek nie saamstem nie sal jy weet. Ek is nie bang om te verskil nie. En hou daarvan om met jou te debatteer, solank dit met respek geskied.
Ek is 'n anders en ek is fine daarmee... Aanvaar my soos ek is. Alles in die lewe is nie altyd swart of wit nie... Maart dit is wat kleur in die lewe sit
About Her Ideal Match
Iemand wat weet wat hy wil hê uit die lewe, waarna toe hy oppad is, maar wat met rukke steeds in die oomblik kan lewe... alles is balans.
Ek het nie 'n 'template' van hoe my ideale maat moet lyk nie... maar ek het karakter eienskappe wat ek nie op sal onderhandel nie.
Jy gaan nie vir my hoef te sorg nie (ek sorg vir myself en my kind)... maar jy moet vir jou self kan sorg. Jy moet stabiel wees en nie van 1 werk na 'n ander float nie. Geld is GLAD nie alles nie, maar ek wil iemand hê wat pro-aktief is in sy eie lewe. Jy moet kan leiding neem in jou eie lewe en jy moet soms kan volg... Jy is verantwoordelik vir jou eie keuses en die wêreld skuld jou niks.
Die lewe deel vir ons elkeen 'n hand kaarte... maar JY kies hoe jy dit speel.
Respek is die 'be all and end all' van enige verhouding. Eerlikheid, vertroue en liefde is nodig vir enige verhouding om te werk.
Wees reguit... as jy nie van iets hou nie dan sê jy so. Familie is uiters belangrik. Ek het nie tyd vir 'n dronkword sessie nie. As jy nie jou alkohol kan hanteer nie... moenie drink nie. Weet wanneer jy jou limiet bereik het. Verantwoordelikheid is 'n moet...
Beloftes is on-onderhandelbaar. As jy nie jou beloftes kan hou nie... moet nie beloftes maak nie.
'n Verhouding is 'n vennootskap. Dit is 'n keuse elke dag om bymekaar te bly. Om deur dinge te werk en nie op te gee nie. Dit is NIE altyd maanskyn en rose nie en as perfeksie is wat jy soek... dan is jy by verkeerde persson. Ek is nie perfek nie, maar ek is 'real'. Jy sal nooit twyfel waar jy met my staan nie.
As jy iemand soek wat jou gaan 'Ja-en-amen'... scroll verby. As jy iemand soek wat jou gelyke is en wat jou sal challenge en sal ondersteun in wat reg is... dan is jy op die regte plek. 'n Verhouding is tussen TWEE mense... Nie 1 nie en ook nie meer as 2 nie.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Nigel, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
32 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
158cm (5' 2.2") | |
Body Type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Current University / College Student | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
29 - 43 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; White; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; German; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; Greek; Italian; Dutch; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Sci-Fi; Soap operas; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Reading; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Bowling; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Camping; Cricket; Dancesport; Darts; Field Hockey; Fishing; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Pool; Rock climbing; Rugby; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skateboarding; Skiing; Snooker; Snowboarding; Swimming; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
