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51 – Blaauwberg, Cape Town, South Africa

A tall and adventurous Viking on distant shores....

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Online: Thursday

Modified: 2 weeks ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
Norway
Location:
Blaauwberg, Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
51
Star Sign:
Leo
Height:
192cm (6' 3.6")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Above Average
Hair Colour:
Auburn
Eye Colour:
Blue-Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Norwegian
Other Languages:
Danish; English; Swedish
Religion:
Ask me later
Marital Status:
Separated
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
33 - 50
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
156cm (5' 1.4") - 186cm (6' 1.2")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I have lived in 6 countries on 4 continents and see myself as an outgoing, fun, thoughtful, philosophical, open, honest, intelligent and younger-than-age looking (at least that's what I hear a lot and of course would like to believe in it; hahaha) male ready to re-boot my life, mainly in Cape Town, a place I've grown to love.
Enjoy being outdoors but prefer to do my workouts in solitude, and at home preferably. Like to read, drive my Harley and boats, dine and wine (including home braai's & feasts in good companionship) plus get off listening to good music either live or on my stereo. I also have a creative side hoping to pursue further. Enjoy being close to the sea more than climbing the highest mountain tops, but hey; never too late to expand ones horizons, I guess.

Not a TV person, but enjoys serious movies (comedy wise I never go wrong getting a good laugh from Woody Allen-movies). Occasionally I must admit binge watching good series on Netflix; House of Cards (UK and US versions alike), Californication, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul and Narcos, to name a few of what I like.
I'm often labeled as being a bit restless, adventurous and bit of a risk taker in business (hey, that's why I'm here), but a big part of me is also about family values and establish close relationships. I'd rather have a few really close friends than a big group of relatively distant friends. I thrive in my own company, but thrives even better when having someone special close by. Life's too short to live it alone all the time.
I've been happily married for 22 years, and has a friendly and respectful relationship with my ex, which I find to be of great importance. We have outgrown and wants different things for ourselves and the rest of our lives, but will still have a mutual interest in our 2 children (11 and 15).When I'm home in Norway I will live with them in an annex for myself. This is how I secure and maintain a good and close relationship with my children.

About His Ideal Match

Anyone who can relate to the above and have a clarified relationship with herself and closest family. Relationships built on mutual respect, honesty and openness....wow, this became such like a cliche, but still true though... Must accept me being in Norway at least 3 times per year to be with my children and attend business issues, maybe being away up to 3 to 4 months totally over the year. A potential partner has to be confident and mature enough to accept such an unusual (but positive) arrangement as described above, me going home visiting my kids.

Value the deeper meaning of life and not being too materialistic. Hey, I've been there, and still loves good stuff in life, but I'm not driven by achieving or acquiring more and more and more all the time. I'd rather be totally free and less well off - than very well off, on the clock and miserable. Been there, done that!

I think I'd prefer a partner with the same values and attitude to life, and which feels free, self confident and are self sufficient. For me, right now, I feel life's too short to be in the prison of the system just because it's whats expected of you and is the "right thing" to do...
I totally respect those who are, either because they need or choose to be, but I want to be clear on my own grounds on this issue, since I sense there are a lot of career and money oriented women out there. If you're interested in me for such reasons, we're not going to match, so save your and my time and look elsewhere.

I like strong women with an opinion of their own in important matters; local, national as well as global. Being respectful of other peoples background, ethnicity, opinions, political standpoints, sexual preferences, religious beliefs etc myself, I expect the same from a potential partner. Wow, that was a lot. Exciting to see what all of this does with my popularity...

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I have a full beard
Body Hair:
Smooth
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion Sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Medium; Well-behaved
Body Art:
Pierced ears
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
I'm most comfortable naked
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter
Music Preferences:
Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Punk; Reggae; Rock
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction
TV Shows:
Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News
Movie Preferences:
Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Healthy living; Investing; Painting; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books
Sports:
Badminton; Basketball; Swimming; Walking; Weight training
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I have to cook
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV Habits:
I mostly use my TV for news or sport
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Reading:
I love it
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & Dislikes
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s)
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream Home:
Other
Religious Attendance:
Doesn't apply
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Politics:
Moderate
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited