In Her Own Words
About Her
It's the little things that count for me. I enjoy intimate moments, love laughing and fruitful conversations. I'm not good with awkward moments, and with every fibre in me believe in genuine connections between people. A good meal and a glass of wine are my kind of Friday nights, when I say good meals please don’t start thinking MasterChef because I am not even sure if I like cooking. I am family and culturally oriented and honestly look better in stilettos, than I do in sneakers 😄. Oh and apparently wanting to come home to a man that I can wrap myself around on a daily is called an anxious attachment style which could be quite problematic for a man who doesn’t want to feel like they are being suffocated by my love. I only give that which is given.
I’m HIV positive, that does not make me any less lovable or resentful towards people or life. Do I wish love had been more kinder to me? Definitely, but I do believe it possible.
I am an open minded individual, shy at times but break out of my shell easily. I'm good at communicating and can touch on various topics, I am not afraid to say "I do not know or understand" chances are I don't but I really want to know. Laughing is my best medicine and as much as I can come across as strict or too serious to some people, I am actually warm, compassionate and kind.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm hoping to meet a Gentleman who understands that if it comes easy then it is not worth it, meaning that no relationship is easy and they are ready to put in the effort, a relationship should not feel like a 9 to 5 to either of us, but more of journey created through love, commitment and memories. A partner who understands I'm not here to grant him the extraordinary love he never had for himself, but that I'm here, on my own accord, to love him.
You must be looking for stability, passion and drive, must be willing to have more kids. I prefer a man who is respectful, outgoing and open minded and one who is able to embrace and appreciate a good woman. I would like a man who does not think buying a box of lindt chocolates or a bunch of roses is a waste of time, such gestures warm my heart, and are my love language, someone who knows how to say "Please" and "Thank you".
Must be able to communicate and not believe that societies way/standards of living should necessarily be our way of living.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
33 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Ndebele | |
Other Languages: |
Sesotho; Tswana; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Current University / College Student | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") - 193cm (6' 4.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Large | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; None (Bald); Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Dutch; English; Italian; Ndebele; Portuguese; Sesotho; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
English; French; Italian; Ndebele; Portuguese; Sepedi; Sesotho; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Heavy; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Self-employed; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; More piercings; Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Business; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Horror |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Reading; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; Indian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Ultra-conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
