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rfh1977

46 – Atlantic Seaboard (Hout Bay), Cape Town, South Africa

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In His Own Words

About Him

I am fairly educated. I have lived a lot and made a lot of mistakes and learned from them (I hope). I have great affection for (and a deep desire to protect) all innocent, broken and defenseless creatures and people of this world. I was raised in a very old school way, so I have old school values, which I try hard to live by - honesty, balancing of male ego with gentleness and compassion, self sacrifice for the greater good, responsibility, stiff upper lip, "compromise where you can, and where you can't, don't". I'm ambitious -and although I realize money isn't everything, the people who guard the gateways to where I want to go in life don't agree with me on that. Therefore I work very hard to achieve and try to do so with the self imposed burden of "succeeding while being ethical". I try to balance my drive with a keen awareness that the people in my life also have needs and desires that are not less important than my own and nothing brings me greater joy than seeing their dreams realized. I do not believe in organized religion (I don't believe it was ever the aim of God to create divisions between people) and I am a man of science, but as I grow older, I lean more and more towards the idea of the existence of "something" beyond science. There's lots more I can say, but no one reads these things anyway.

About His Ideal Match

Someone kind and gentle. Intelligence and looks are important, and a good sense of humor goes a very long way. I was raised with strong family values and experience has taught me that getting involved with someone without those same values is just not going to work in the long run. I'm optimistic and fun and I find it so much easier to be so when around someone who is also optimistic and fun. We all have our own realities and conflicts arise when we try to get our partners to accept our own realities. I don't want to try to force anyone to accept my reality as it is very difficult for me to accept anyone else's. But life is so much more enjoyable when your and my realities are similar. So a shared world view is also something that will increase the chances of us having a happy and honest long life together. I'm very honest with myself about what I am and what I am not. It's nice meeting those rare people who are as honest with themselves.

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Atlantic Seaboard (Hout Bay), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
46
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
180cm (5' 10.9")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Agnostic
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
35 - 45
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
150cm (4' 11.1") - 180cm (5' 10.9")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Yes; Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short
Eyesight:
I wear contacts
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Realistic
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Humour; Kindness
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Black
Leisure & Entertainment
Reading:
I enjoy it
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Not involved at all
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
I'm online on weekdays only
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Intelligence
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious Attendance:
Never
Dream Home:
Cabin in the mountains
Politics:
Moderate
Retirement Plans:
Sailing the seven seas
Honesty:
Extremely