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Modified: 23 December 2016

Online: Thursday

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Durban (upper Glenwood), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
69
Star Sign:
Cancer
Height:
165cm (5' 5.0")
Body Type:
Athletic
Looks:
Above Average
Hair Colour:
Balding
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; Zulu
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Durban (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
25 - 42
Star Sign:
Taurus; Cancer; Pisces
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 165cm (5' 5.0")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Black/African; Coloured; Indian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English; Xhosa; Zulu
Other Languages:
English
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Some University / College
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I have been variously described as, "rugged"(from my former gym owner background),..."Artistic"(this is also my profession.) ..."He can fix anything" (I also have a home repair business) ...The rest, you'd have to get from my friends! LOL.

I am instantly drawn to people who openly display respect, cheerfulness and an enthusiasm for life, and have a natural. healthy interest toward others. Conversely, -- I have no time for arrogance, impatience, coldness, aloofness, selfishness, and/or an overcritical/ attitude -- this just turns me off and headed for the exit door.

My greatest discovery in life, is in coming to grips with the "mind" and "communication."
It just is so much easier now, to address upsets and difficulties that can really hang people up badly. I'm very willing to share this information with my partner, should she be keen.

And guess what is one of the healthiest, most stimulating things to do? (of course that includes great sex, baby doll! lol) -- To engage in as much humor, laughter, joking, comedy, and REASONS not to take things too seriously. (in life, and/or business.)

As far as life is concerned, I see it as a HUGE game, where we really are just playing our games (within games,) with each other and usually don't even know it! ) Sometimes, we'll win, and sometimes we won't. But as long as we remember we're just playing our role/s in a GAME, we can keep our sense of perspective, our humor AND humility, when dealing with others and ourselves. ( So, now how about a big smile for me, sunshine? :) )

About His Ideal Match

A key element between us, would be the ability & WILLINGNESS to step into each other's shoes, to appreciate and understand where the other is at. Or at least communicate, if one can't

Plus, the whole of life beckons us to CREATE a future for ourselves, doesn't it? Maybe this amounts to a sudden yearn to travel? Or new and exciting things to do and explore? Or that early morning walk along the beach? Or you really just feel like lots of mutual, loving cuddles on the couch, while we enjoy each other's company? Or watch a romantic movie on TV together? Or a Sunday morning breakfast in bed, served by either me, or you, depending on whoever is 'conscious' at that (yawn) ridiculous time of the (yawn) morning, right? LOL! Hey, 2 me Doll, ALL the above simply defines being caring and C-R-E-A-T-I-V-E, you know?

Two no-no's for growing a relationship would involve :

1) 'Disagreements' left hanging in the air! One should always be prepared to reach a compromise, or if not, walk away, cool off, then review the situation with a clear head (And remember a 'tango' really feels AMAZING when done in HARMONY with your partner!)

2) Dishonesty (the real killer) Though not always practical, it is wise to keep the relationship from accumulating hidden activities. This is impossible at times, of course (there is consideration in how one's partner is up to dealing with bad news, for example) BUT I believe as long as one strives to be considerate, keeping good humor, that openness IS the best policy. --Say it! -- Get thru' it! -- THAT's commitment 2 U !!

If not, then dealt with, purely through the JOINT preparedness to face, apologize /forgive, and 2 REALLY communicate (solve problems) -- Neat hey?

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Average
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Disappearing
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Pink
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Fine Dining; Seafood; South African
Music Preferences:
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help
TV Shows:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Soap operas; Sport; Variety shows
Movie Preferences:
Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Horror; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Acting; Auto repair; Business news; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Painting; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Surfing the Internet
Sports:
Athletics; Body building; Boxing; Cricket; Extreme sports; Gymnastics; Hang- / Paragliding; Martial arts; Motorsport; Rugby; Weight training
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Doing absolutely nothing
Time Online:
I'm on several hours a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
There're several shows I watch regularly
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I'm an only child
Family Closeness:
We're average
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
I love it
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Fish
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s)
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream Home:
Loft in the city
Religious Attendance:
Doesn't apply
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Politics:
Moderate
Honesty:
Very
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited