In Her Own Words
About Her
About Her
I’ve danced barefoot in Paris, whispered strength into strangers, and helped people find home within themselves. I’ve lived fully—raised a family, built a creative life, and stood in truth even when it shook me. Now, I seek intimacy that feels like exhale.
I’m a woman of substance, sensuality, and soul—equal parts warmth and edge. My days are laced with espresso and bold ideas; my evenings hum with music, candlelight, and conversations that don’t need fixing—just truth. I build safety in relationships—and sometimes, I still believe in magic.
Beauty moves me, but not the kind in mirrors
. I’m drawn to emotional intelligence and kindness,humor with heart, and the kind of companionship that deepens over time.
I do my best to live with insight, grace, humility,passion gratitude and joy.
No performance, no pretense—just presence.
My life is rich with meaning, friendship, art, travel, and the quiet stillness that nourishes the soul. But I miss the sacred ordinariness of love: shared glances, the shoulder leaned into, the late-night talks and the warm body to cuddle into. I want that again—this time, with someone who truly gets it.
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About Her Ideal Match
My ideal is:
You’ve weathered storms and softened beautifully. You speak with your eyes, love with your hands, and laugh like you mean it. You’re grounded, sensual, and emotionally generous—comfortable in your skin, and it shows.
You appreciate depth, playfulness, and a woman who knows her own worth. You’re financially comfortable—not because money defines you, but because it creates space for ease, generosity, and shared adventure.
You’re not looking to fix or be fixed. You want resonance—not transaction. Presence without pretension. Joy without spectacle. You’re not afraid of silence, or depth, or of a woman who’s lived many lives and still wants one more—with you.
If you value both passion and peace, conversation and quiet, freedom and devotion—then maybe we’re already walking the same path….waiting to meet.
• “If you show up with integrity and tenderness, you’ll find I will meet you there—with loyalty, fire, and a kind of love that remembers your coffee order, your scars, and how you like to be held when you’re quiet.”
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton (wierda valley), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Sandton (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
66 - 74 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") - 196cm (6' 5.2") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Sikh | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Opera; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Shopping; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Gymnastics; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Skiing |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |