In Her Own Words
About Her
Looking for a life partner, friend, companion. First a meeting of the minds, because that is always what gets in the way after the meeting of the bodies. I think that too many look for 'sparks' and 'chemistry'. Honestly, that is the first thing to fade in a real relationship. I want the friendship part first, build an attraction - rather than find the sparks and attraction and have it fizzle out only to realize that you two have nothing to say to each other outside of bed. I'm too old to be making life decisions with my genitals... are you? Of course I want passion, let's build it moment by moment.
How about getting to know someone? Your naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with your naked soul. Sounds too poetic and unreasonable? Sad indictment of our current state of mind, isn't it...
About Her Ideal Match
I'd like to meet a mature man. Be respectful. I am open to any age, as long as you behave like a gentleman. Obviously, I would love to meet a life partner, but can we honestly know that after one coffee or a drink? I am trying to be realistic. I don't want to tick off a check list. I'm done with that shit and want to find real people who are willing to give life a chance, rather than looking for ridiculous ideals and perfection. I want someone who is genuine, authentic. I want to get to know you before I discard any and all possibilities based on looks and tingles in my nether regions. I read enough romance novels to fulfill unrealistic fantasies, I'm looking for reality and to build a connection rather than discard you based on superficialities. My one and only requirement is that you are healthy and not looking for a nurse/mother/cook/housekeeper/nanny. I'm here for a fully grown mature man.
"Separated" does not apply if you are still living in the same house. I don't care how good your story is.
**If your ethnicity preferences are "non-negotiable white/caucasian" why ask to see my pics!** Duh!
I have grown kids, but they still come first in my life. You will need to accept that and be okay with it all of the time.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
48 - 75 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
166cm (5' 5.4") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Kosher; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Knitting; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Bowling; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Pool; Shooting; Skiing; Snooker; Softball; Swimming; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
