In His Own Words
About Him
Ideally I want a match to formulate a reason for being with me independently of my prompting or puff. I enjoy a good laugh now and then to break the monotone of a day in the salt mine. By the same token, I enjoy an ability to be serious when necessary, to listen intently and to be a pillar to lean on without being used (unfortunately, I must be candid too).
Probably, most of all, I enjoy absolute simplicity with no frills or pretences.
I, from time to time, lose myself in my guitar, or DIY projects, or movies or reading a good novel...it goes on but with an uncanny balancing that seems to work. My children are important to me , are with me by choice, and I remain a good friend to their mother.
About His Ideal Match
Someone comfortable in their skin, atypical, simple and genuine. A peaceful energy, who gets a potato in their throat when watching a heart wrenching movie, who gets mad at life or people too because they're human but who is generally positive, who loves, who laughs, who cries, who smiles, who knows that that caress on the cheek in a crowded mall is worth a million kisses, who thinks, who just appreciates all of life... openly, simply...who knows and understands why I am happy to send a photo privately in another form of media when the nom de plumes can also be dropped.
What His Friends Say
Pauncho hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Margate, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Below Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Legal | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Durban (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Instrumental; Jazz |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Making Music; Painting; Reading; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Camping; Fishing; Pool; Table Tennis; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Very |
