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Online: A week ago

Modified: 2 weeks ago

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
City Bowl, Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
64
Star Sign:
Capricorn
Height:
165cm (5' 5.0")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde
Eye Colour:
Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; French; German; Zulu
Religion:
Christian / Other
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Income:
Ask me later

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Europe; Angola; Botswana; Mauritius; Mozambique; South Africa; Swaziland
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
57 - 64
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
178cm (5' 10.1") - 188cm (6' 2.0")
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
English
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Executive / Management; Retired; Self-employed; Other
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

Photos; turquoise blue jacket and white Capri jeans May 2017, black dress 2016.Close friends state "I cant believe you haven't met anyone you are so....!" Truth be told I was too busy as a single Mom my ex was/is utterly irresponsible-no love lost (so I prefer to leave the past alone) abridged! Main characteristics, gentle,resilient, sensitive,peace loving, abhor injustice/unfairness and will fight for what is right,even tempered, highly creative innovative, warm, responsible, very aware:-
1. opt for quality over quantity &refinement wins
2. love the outdoors: beautiful flora and fauna. particularly love the sea. As a family always had med to large dogs as pets(esp pechant for collies & retrievers & cats
3. I am a physical being, enjoy feeling fit and energetic. Go to gym (Callisthenics)walking, hiking, swimming, play tennis/ golf/squash, ride horses, have skied.
4. I cannot live without music (ecletic taste-classical Schubert, Grieg, Chopin etc & contemporary, love Crowded House, Ennio Morricone, Coldplay etc) & enjoy dancing
5. Paint botanicals & other in watercolour & oil
6. Am an avid reader
7. I am fairly serious & like most of that nature ;-) am sensitive, have a sense of humour. I abhor crudeness. I am caring, a perfectionist re projects, cleanliness, easy going in daily life, spontaneous and sociable - love being with friends&family
8. integrity, honesty, morality, compassion &empathy are inherent, there is no room for compromise
9. I take an interest in current affairs incl. science & technology
10. I enjoy cooking & baking. My daughter is a professional Chef
11. I attend church most Sundays but am not a great believer in denominations i.e. man made.
I am down to earth. I am multifaceted. I grew up in a gracious home with a magnificently cared for garden full of indigenous trees and shrubs which engendered a deep respect and appreciation for nature.

About Her Ideal Match

Mmm there are 43 pages of 'matches' on each page BUT 1 is fortunate if 1 sees 2photos! Maybe they r ghosts? Masses of written words but no photo? No photo 'no contest' you lose ;-) well perhaps, we both lose. I had wonderful Dad, Grandfather & Uncles & I see fine qualities in my friend's partners too (not interested in dating married or separated men).The following IDEALLY remember this is the IDEAL but not necessarily 'the real' quite simply:-
1. Refined above avg intelligence, unassuming & not afraid to be gentle, kind, not domineering, just naturally a born leader therefor seek a man who I can be sure is capable of doing the responsible/intelligent thing, should the situation require it. I dont mean he would be overtly assertive, just quietly, unassumingly, in control in a good way. Able to command as I dont like to 'wear the pants' be great to have a partner that appreciates his partner's intellect etc
2. A great sense of humour re the ridiculous.
3.He would share the same moral, ethical &
spiritual values.A man one could depend upon;
4. Hopefully as comfortable in a dinner jacket as in his chinos or denims.
4. Love to walk & hike in nature, go to the beach, swim, enjoy the outdoors, keeps fit routinely
5. Love music be interested in the arts/finer things in life. He would be discerning re good taste, be refined, sophisticated,well educated and well read. Good taste is not V neck Tshirts &thick gold chains. Honesty is kinder in the longer term.
6. Please understand, I am looking for a friend & lover not a man who has inflated ideas about the power of material wealth
7. Naturally a highly intelligent man would have been able to build up a strong and secure base (but tragedies can cause havoc I do realise and empathise re that) but that is not where the important essence lies for a partnership, its about chemistry, love, mutual respect, common values & similar social strata so we are mutually at ease with each others friends & families.

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More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion Sense:
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Medium; Long; Curly; It has its moods
Body Art:
I don't have any; Pierced ears
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Cuisine:
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai
Music Preferences:
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Muzak; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Romance; Travel
TV Shows:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows
Movie Preferences:
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga
Sports:
Archery; Backgammon; Birdwatching; Bodyboarding; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Dancesport; Fencing; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Polo; Running; Sailing; Skiing; Snorkeling; Squash; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Water skiing
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
Once or twice a week
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Fire the boss
Dream Home:
Beach house
Religious Attendance:
Once a week
Politics:
Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely