In His Own Words
About Him
Okay, here we go......I think I'm pretty normal, but not average and also not perfect. Straightforward, stable (if you believe my therapist!) and a generally decent human being.
I am house-trained and can dress myself (and can cook, a bit, often surprising myself when I do!).......and I do have a good sense of humour and don't take myself too seriously (work takes care of that!)
I am (or at least try to be) caring, tolerant, positive, trustworthy, patient (to a point), non-judgemental and respectful. Strong (not overbearing!) character, generally chilled....and can be prone to spontaneity. Basically down-to-earth, but comfortable in most environments and interacting at any level. I'm a good listener, curious by nature and an independent and innovative thinker. And not afraid of affection nor to be affectionate with my loved one!
I'm fit and vibrant, enjoy long (or short) walks, hiking, swimming, some cycling (round the proverbial block), tennis every now and then, and golf (when I have time!)...and just being a kid every so often!
I enjoy: spending time with the one I'm with, whether doing nothing or sharing/making new experiences; exploring different things and places, outdoors, nature/animals, going out (but not a serial party animal!), chilling, solving the world's problems over a bottle of wine or couple of beers (or just talking nonsense)......
There's more, but get to know me to find out......and anyway, I'd rather know more about you.....
Oh, about the photos, happy to share these, just not keen to be plastered everywhere.
About His Ideal Match
Well....you should be comfortable with who you are, stable yet free-spirited personality, confident, intelligent (but can also talk about the little things or plain nonsense or just being silly at times), good sense of humour, no major hang-up's, well balanced (not in the way you think I'm thinking.....really!), open to spur-of-the-moment activities, enjoy going out but also just chilling and relaxing.
Although looks are somewhat important (don't shout me down, let's just be honest!), you should be comfortable in your own skin and have natural sexiness and sensuality.
And.....be willing to give and take lots of love and passion in our relationship!
But, having said all of this....the key will be compatibility and that all important chemistry if and when we meet?
What His Friends Say
AforU hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Ramsgate, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
South Coast; Amanzimtoti; Durban; Hillcrest; Pinetown; Umhlanga; Ballito; Umdloti; Hilton; Howick; Nottingham Road; Pietermaritzburg; Harding; Kokstad (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
42 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 182cm (5' 11.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Humility; Humour; Moderation; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Photography; Reading; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Bungee jumping; Cricket; Cycling; Golf; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rugby; Snorkeling; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; Italian; Pub Grub; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |