pabrales

47 – Southern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa

Charming bon viveur,whose mantra is being boring is impermissible

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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: 11 February 2017

About Him

Country of Origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Southern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
47
Star Sign:
Cancer
Height:
169cm (5' 6.5")
Body Type:
Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
French; German
Religion:
Ask me later
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
38 - 50
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
159cm (5' 2.6") - 170cm (5' 6.9")
Body Type:
Slim; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Divorced
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

This is tough but here goes, not sure if this should be autobiographical or a soliloquay.

The way most of friends describe me is that there is never a dull moment in my life, but make no mistake I have had more than enough dramas in my life. Really seeking companionship as I am spending my weekend composing this, and would much rather be out visiting wine farms in the countryside .....alas it's a bit boring going on your own and people give you odd looks. Would love to meet new friends and increase social circles as new to CT. I will not bore you with my personality, my likes and dislikes etc as my theory in life is that a neurochemical in your brain has to be triggered when you meet someone i.e. you need that catalyst without it being with someone will be like watching paint dry...when you meet someone the neurochemicals will make things happen without trying. Being able to compromise is the most important part of a relationship as utopia does not exist !. The second most fundamental recipe for a great relationship is good communication and not taking the other person for granted. So if you are not a great communicator ( like my ex ) then please do not bother to respond. Mt last comment about any relationship is that you invariably fall out of love not because of the things you knew about your partner( such as the stuff on this site ) but the things you find out later about them !
At my stage in life I want to be honest, sincere and genuine and happy to meet people even if it is just to socialise. I do not promise to be your Mr Right but what have to lose after all you are looking at this for the same reason I posted it. The only thing I can assure you of is you will meet some new friends, and start to market yourself in other ways and perhaps even increase you chances of meeting the right guy on this site

About His Ideal Match

I am old enough to know I am not searching for utopia but to meet someone who I can enjoy some quality time and meet new friends as I stated above the most important aspect on any relationship is there has to be a trigger inside one's brain that makes you want to be and spend time with that person. Only once you have spent time with someone will you know if there is chemistry, personally I do not think that by reading euphemistic stories on websites aids in any way, in determining whether you will like someone ( i.e. drinks socially turns out to be a raging alcoholic) These websites do little than break the ice, although it does help eliminate people you would rather not meet like islamic jihadists .
I have a variety of interests but above all I like intellectual stimulation which includes good thought provoking conversation, naturally I like good food and wine etc but don't we all, so why bother stating the obvious.
If you have read this you will by now have worked out what sort of guy I am, if you haven't then do not respond.

Lastly you are probably wondering why there is no picture, this is purely for privacy as this dalliance into the world of internet dating is new to me, but will happily provide pics if requested as often it will help you determine if the neurochemicals will fire up for you.

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Average
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
The life of the party
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic
Valued Qualities:
Honesty
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Purple
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; Punk; R&B / Soul
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery
Interests:
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Pottery; Woodworking; Yoga
Sports:
Athletics; Boxing; Cricket; Motorsport; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Skiing; Swimming; Triathlon
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV Habits:
I mostly use my TV for news or sport
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I'm not keen
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Power; Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Dream Home:
Beach house
Religious Attendance:
Never
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Politics:
Very Liberal
Honesty:
Very
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic