In Her Own Words
About Her
Well .... what can I say? Always find it difficult to self promote, as one then runs the risk of either coming across as conceited or arrogant - which are not good first impressions! So having said that ... I am still unsure what to say :) *ponders*
I'm considered a very generous person in all aspects of my life especially in friendship, family and love. I'm honest and down-to-earth and I've been told that I'm smart, beautiful, funny (in a strange, dry way) and sensitive, although I also tend to be a bit modest too. Once you get past the self-deprecating humor, you will soon learn that I'm a raging egomaniac. Nah, that's not true, either.
How do you just say that you're a nice, decent woman looking to share her life with her future soul mate? I guess that would do it.
I am sure you would have surmised at this point that I am most probably of above average intelligence (well I like to think so anyway), I love playing with words, I might even have a sense of humor and a few other things that I will leave to your interpretation.
I can tell you that I am not interested in casual sex or friends with benefits or no strings attached fun or, wait for it, a one night stand. By being this candid and upfront, it's purely an issue of I wouldn't want to waste anyone's time.
I'd love someone to chat to, meet, go for coffee, picnics, watch a movie with, all those sorts of 'ordinary/normal' things. Oh and don't get me wrong ... I am a very affectionate demonstrative person .... but with someone special (although everyone is special in their own way ... but you know what I mean right?)
Leaving the best for last ..... I am a Child of God, walking a very spiritual and intense walk at the moment. So if you are not likeminded in that you are a Child of God, then you should not read any further :)
So having said all that .... you can thus decide whether to click the 'send message' button or you can move onto the next person in your search results.
If I send you a message, and you're not interested, please say so :)
About Her Ideal Match
Someone who is not afraid to show affection .... someone who enjoys the outdoors just as much as cuddling on the couch watching a good movie or listening to good music. Someone who is comfortable and who will enjoy being in the kitchen whipping up a smoothie or a masterpiece ... alone or together ... Someone who enjoys being cuddled and touched .... Someone who loves to laugh and who can laugh at himself ... Someone who will happily accept my children ... Someone who will sit up until all hours chatting about serious or silly, about philosophy or the mating rituals of the fruit fly .....
I love funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. I also love creativity and passion. Maybe it's your love of '80s movies, music from classical to heavy metal, your toy car collection or the fact that you enjoy eating gherkins straight out of the bottle .... it doesn't matter.
The right man not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We push each other to be the greatest people we can be. We bolster each other's egos and we leave short, thoughtful love messages for each other.
If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine.
But I will say that if you've got blue eyes, are a Manchester United fan, love Prime Circle, are a part-time singer/guitarist and you are an actual, real person that can write and spell and you are a Child of God who enjoys worship/praise music (I don't ask for much) ... I'm already melting ;)
Need I say more?
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Maroelana), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Gospel / Religious; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Mystery; Religious |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Painting; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Aussie Rules Football; Cricket; Gymnastics; Horse Riding; Pool; Snooker; Soccer; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
