In His Own Words
About Him
Seeing one's self through someone else's rose tinted glasses is never easy. My friends (whom I have paid richly) say I am a nice chap, well mannered, respectful, well read and thoughtful. (but they are my loyal friends and I pay them handsomely ....:) ) What am I looking for on this site, hmmm I think a best friend, soul mate and lover and total understanding would sum it up. Someone I can communicate with, not just verbally or emotionally, but also from my inner being and soul.
Some would call me an old soul, totally loyal, that will move mountains with a tea spoon for his loved ones. I have a wicked sense of humour, at times naughty and cheeky, but always respectful.
Oh yes !!! I can be very romantic and have been told I am a dreamer, and, sshh, I do cry in sad movies, and get shit scared in horrors .... :)
As for how I see myself, best let's meet and you can make up your own mind. :) I love the concept of family and (inner circle) friends. I don't have children of my own, but love kids. I also love cooking up a feast for loved ones. I enjoy socializing and can hold my own in conversation with most people out there.
Let's see, yes, I have killed off a few plants but am pleased to report that most of them blossom away quite nicely. Oh yes turned a few goldfish into floaters yep (dead as a door nail). Oh and before I forget, I do lift the toilet seat and put it back down again when I am done. :) And if really needs be I can iron a shirt better than most ... :)
I love a good glass of wine watching a romantic sunset, or some champagne while watching the sunrise after a great romantic evening together.
And before you ask, yes I do have a naughty streak which coexists very nicely with my spontaneous and adventurous streaks and wickedly open mind.... :)
Anything else you would like to know you can ask me over a glass of wine.
About His Ideal Match
The most important thing for me in any lady is to be real, I love a lady that can laugh, relax and have fun. I love a lady that is open minded and has a naughty twinkle (and a naughty side) in her eye, that keeps everyone guessing ......
I am not looking for a beauty queen, I am looking for a real salt of the earth type of lady. If you are a beauty queen even better, but I am looking for a good heart, a good soul and a brilliant personality. I want a best friend, a lover and a soul mate. Someone to laugh with and have fun times with, to be my best friend and grow old with.
What I'd like is to first be friends, lets go for walks, bicycle rides, sun-downers etc... Let's be good company for, and get to know each other first. Let's be activity partners, do things together and enjoy the beautiful country we live in. And then if we feel that special connection, and the chemistry is there, then I will be more than willing to lead the way and to take it from there. But for now, no pressure. So let's meet and be friends and explore possibilities, and if that chemistry is there, and if the earth moves for us, we can take it from there. We only live once, lets make that once more than enough ..... :)
If you are reading this, I hope to meet you soon .... :)
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg (Milnerton), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Backgammon; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Extreme sports; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Mountain biking; Rugby; Running; Scuba diving; Shooting; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Triathlon; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |