In Her Own Words
About Her
Not into the party scene or a hectic social life? If you like to chill mostly at home, either with select friends or just pottering about your interests, studying or doing whatever blows you hair back, this is what I like to do.
Not totally averse to the very occasional hanging from the chandeliers party or trying something new but I consistently gravitate towards the quiet life.
I enjoy good conversation but love companionable silences even more. I'm not very good at inane small talk but can usually fake it until I can take a gap and run like hell for the hills.
I'm not into head-games of any sort, keeping up with Jones' or corporate ambitions.
I'm interested in alternative lifestyles such as self-sufficiency, simple small town/farm life.
An independent thinker.
Love all animals for their authenticity and joy.
About Her Ideal Match
Kind and laid back with a sense of humour in trying situations.
Somebody who has thought a bit about who he is and what he wants out of this life.
It doesn't matter what you drive or what you do, it's the bit inside that nobody usually gets to see that interests me.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") | |
Body Type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
55 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Quiet; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Folk; Heavy Metal; Latin; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Horse Riding; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |