In Her Own Words
About Her
Myself - restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am looking forward to finding love, I would rather chat here than in a noisy bar, although I'm open to both. I'm not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. Very independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I love to cook but how it turns out is subjective, so if you have skills in the kitchen maybe we can rub off on each other. Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on put great flavour into many of my evenings.
I have purposely not loaded a picture, as previously I've had tons of weirdo's replying to me simply because of my appearance- I'm not stroking my own ego, but if you read the replies of those oversexed men you would understand... ( b.t.w. I do enjoy dirty messages but only if we are in a relationship). At the end of the day-regardless of what happens, regardless of how jaded I may become, I know that my happiness is solely dependent on how I choose to look at things. So, that's me.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match is a home maker but also likes to hit the beach, climb the odd hill and explore new places. I am very active and would prefer someone who appreciates the outdoors. Intelligence is sexy! Shy can be cute, being decisive is good, someone who is able to make good decisions and enjoys life. I am a girl who recognizes a man is a man and doesn't feel the need to be controlling in every situation. Someone open to sharing their life with someone they love, financially stable, sensual and an animal lover. I love kids and understand what sacrifice and dedication it takes to raise them, so if you have kids great.. if you have dogs or cats I will love them too.
I am not interested in most guys, and perhaps that what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special. You don't have to have a great fashion sense or be 6ft tall to get my attention (although regular grooming and a nice cologne is mandatory). I don't pay much attention to looks, it's mostly secondary to me. Personality & attitude is what reels me. I just love spending time with a man who kicks-ass at just being himself.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Eastern Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 35 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Some University / College | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Optimistic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Designer (I'm a slave to designer labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Silver |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Camping; Extreme sports; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rugby; Running; Surfing; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |