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Maya_Jay

41 – Sandton (Morningsi), Gauteng, South Africa

Looking for a fun, adventurous social travel friend and partner

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Online: 2 weeks ago

Modified: 14 May 2017

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Sandton (Morningsi), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
41
Star Sign:
Aries
Height:
167cm (5' 5.7")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Light Brown
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:
Comfortable

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
35 - 49
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
150cm (4' 11.1") - 188cm (6' 2.0")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Marital Status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No; Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

I'm pretty well grounded, passionate about life, outdoors, sitting around a campfire, enjoying good culture and adventure. I'm smart, have worked hard to get where I'm at and am dedicated to my career - also, real fun absolutely gets a priority. I take life seriously and laugh easily - even if that's an apparent contradiction. I have a sneaky sense of humour, just tease it out of me.

I've travelled sporadically around the world and largely in southern Africa, but have done less than half the adventure and traveling that I want to and am burgeoning ahead. I'm up for about anything that's got a constructive social side to it, but am not in for the party scene. I've had some serious setbacks but haven't lost an ounce of my ambition so it feels almost as if I'm now starting to realize much of what I had envisioned but not quite attained in good time.

I don't understand the preference that some guys seem to have for an independent woman but she mustn't be assertive. I'm absolutely assertive. If something's important to me, I'm going to stand by it. That doesn't mean I'm not flexible. I walk the path of life as tough as it is to learn from it. I also don't understand the prerequisite to have no "issues" or be uncomplicated. We're all complex, everyone has some kind of "issue", we're all unique.

As for my career, I'm in mining and opportunities in the world are still out there. If I remain unlucky in love, I might take myself off on a contract off-shore somewhere or emigrate to New Zealand (perhaps). That depends on you. If you're worth staying here, you've got me. Then we can get a pet. If you're willing to come with me, I'll love you forever.

Can we abide, walk alongside and grow with each other's uniqueness? Live with me, love with me.

About Her Ideal Match

I'm looking for a partner who will sit around the fire with me, stay at home and watch a movie and travel to exciting destinations. I love the outdoors so join me for river-rafting on the Zambezi, MTB or climbing Macchu Picchu (the first I've done and will do again, the last is still out there).

A guy who's independent and aware of me, who loves the simple things and understands the complex, who finds adventure and loves the journey. A guy who can taste the difference between a fine wine and a poor one but not necessarily lord it. A guy who'll hike the mountains, appreciate good literature, fine food, and good entertainment. A guy who'll let me be me and other times be with me.

It's asking a lot but I'm worth it.

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Devotion; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Gold
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Cuisine:
Chinese; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Making Music; Photography; Reading; Singing; Writing books; Yoga
Sports:
Birdwatching; Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Extreme sports; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Lacrosse; Mountain biking; Paddle surfing; Rock climbing; Running; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; White water rafting
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time Online:
I'm on several hours a day
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I mostly use my TV for news or sport
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got sisters
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I enjoy it
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Religious Attendance:
I'm non-practicing
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Politics:
Liberal
Honesty:
Very
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Optimistic