In His Own Words
About Him
I'm the guy you want to introduce to your parents...
Modern spirit with old school values.
Kind, compassionate, caring guy with respect, integrity and commitment.
Every girls says they want these qualities but I have yet to meet a girl that actually value them in real life.
If you secretly want a guy to treat you like a tramp or a trophy then please lets not waste your time.
Please don't take offense if I send a simple "Hi..." because my experience is that most girls don't bother to reply and I would rater chat to someone that does reply... I mean really!!! Do you expect me to sweep you off your feet with a carefully crafted message that I copy and paste to every first pursuit or would you rather have a personal message just for you?? Just let me know that you're there...
I am rich in life experience (that means I've faced my fair share of crap) and lived to tell my story and maybe someone can benefit from it.
If I like you I'm intense, I'll want to know ALL your secrets, failures, victories and , shortcomings... I want to know you in TRUTH and I want to be known in TRUTH. (I also have secrets, failures, victories and shortcomings)
"...But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It is what we need more than anything. It liberates us from pretense, humbles us out of our self-righteousness, and fortifies us for any difficulty life can throw at us." - Timothy Keller, The Meaning of Marriage
About His Ideal Match
Someone that has values that are similar to mine who actually want a relationship and is ready to commit.
NON-Negotiable's:
- Christian with a heart for God.
- Honesty and Integrity.
Wish-list:
- Gratitude ( -makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow)
- Grace (Probably the most attractive quality in a girl's person)
- Forgiveness (We are going to disappoint each other at some point and the only way to get past that is to have the ability to completely forgive)
- Willingness (to risk being vulnerable and share your truth)
Lasting relationships are based on physical attraction first, then taking time to get to know someone..., all of it...
No secrets..., no deceit. If we can't accept the worst now then it will only complicate the best later.
I am looking for real relationship so I will only meet someone that I do find attractive cause I would like to make you feel special.... I'm not looking for magazine cover beauty..., I see beauty in imperfections like a stringy neck, prominent collar bone or a twitch in your lip before you smile...., the things you probably are self conscious about.
I am not interested in large, curvy or a few extra pounds..., shallow some would say but that's my preference.
Ideal age 35 to 40 as my spirit and looks are young for my age.
I don't relate well to older woman and only find a few older girls attractive.
Guess I'm still a boy at heart.
Ideal first date:
Simple first date... Quiet cup of coffee or a walk in the park...
Second date will be awesome if we like each other and find that there is a little magic.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
186cm (6' 1.2") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Orange |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Gardening; Photography |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Extreme sports; Fishing; Golf; Motorsport; Scuba diving; Shooting; Swimming; Table Tennis; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
Less than once a week |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
