In Her Own Words
About Her
I love love, loving and being loved. I am fun to be with and absolutely great company. I am the kind of woman you can easily become friends with because I am relaxed yet focused. I am transparent, no guess work . I love the simple things , for me the fun is in the little gestures; like holding hands, being silly at times. I just want to have that someone who is there just for me.
About Her Ideal Match
A good balance of intelligence, confidence, ambition, love and laughter will go a long way. I want someone who can be strong for me but allow me to be independent without being threatened at the same time allowing me to be vulnerable without expecting me to be superwoman. If you can talk to me about your hopes and your fears, about the moon and the sun, share ideas with me and be stupid with me and allow me to do the same, l think l can see us old and wrinkled together
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
English; Swati; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
My TV is never off |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Pool; Running |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |