About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Newton park), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Balding | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Government | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Eastern Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
47 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 163cm (5' 4.2") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About Him
I have a recurring dream that I have been drafted to play on the Natal Sharks' rugby team. This is a very upsetting dream because I cannot really play in that league. I mean, I play pretty much how you would expect a 57-year-old retired Psychologist to play. The words clumsy, hesitant, clueless, short and frightened come to mind. During the dream I'm well aware of my grotesque lack of talent. I run up and down the field hoping the ball doesn't come my way, all the way wondering why the coach doesn't take me out. Even me; executing an uncontested penalty or free kick seems like an impossible, or at least unlikely, event. Assuming dreams work as metaphor and I'm not really subconsciously afraid of having to go man-to-man with The Beast or Frans Steyn, the question I find myself asking is, what in my life do I feel fully engaged in and yet completely unqualified for? The answer is simple: DATING. Once again, the words clumsy, hesitant, clueless, short and frightened come to mind. Well, not short ... average.
About His Ideal Match
"My turn-ons and what I'm looking for in a person", wow... hmmm... shopping list ??. I think I could list all the qualities and traits I would like in my match and I still wouldn't be able to describe my "perfect match". I think we all have an idea of what type of person with whom we'd like to spend time; type of personality, type of appearance, type of friend, lover, confidante... But sometimes we assume that our "perfect match" is one thing, when in fact we come to realize by spending time with someone that we didn't realize all that went into our "perfect match".
I've come to realize what I would like in a friend, companion and lover based on past successful and failed relationships. I know I need someone who is kind, patient, down-to-earth, appreciates the little things in life, is not superficial, has perspective on the important things in life, is romantic, loving, affectionate, yet is also strong, independent and not ashamed of her intelligence. Someone who draws on her inner strength and moral compass to get her through life, yet also is not afraid to give in to love and romance and not afraid to let herself be vulnerable to the love and affection of a man in her life and yet not afraid to let herself trust others.
While this may be my "ideal match" I envision now, I truly believe I will know her when I meet her.
What His Friends Say
andrevj hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Humour; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
News; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Photography |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Rugby; Sailing; Scuba diving |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
I don't have any family! |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
