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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Port Elizabeth (Newton park), Eastern Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
62
Star Sign:
Scorpio
Height:
183cm (6' 0.0")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Balding
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Ask me later
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Regular
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Government
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Port Elizabeth (Eastern Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
47 - 55
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 163cm (5' 4.2")
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I have a recurring dream that I have been drafted to play on the Natal Sharks' rugby team. This is a very upsetting dream because I cannot really play in that league. I mean, I play pretty much how you would expect a 57-year-old retired Psychologist to play. The words clumsy, hesitant, clueless, short and frightened come to mind. During the dream I'm well aware of my grotesque lack of talent. I run up and down the field hoping the ball doesn't come my way, all the way wondering why the coach doesn't take me out. Even me; executing an uncontested penalty or free kick seems like an impossible, or at least unlikely, event. Assuming dreams work as metaphor and I'm not really subconsciously afraid of having to go man-to-man with The Beast or Frans Steyn, the question I find myself asking is, what in my life do I feel fully engaged in and yet completely unqualified for? The answer is simple: DATING. Once again, the words clumsy, hesitant, clueless, short and frightened come to mind. Well, not short ... average.

About His Ideal Match

"My turn-ons and what I'm looking for in a person", wow... hmmm... shopping list ??. I think I could list all the qualities and traits I would like in my match and I still wouldn't be able to describe my "perfect match". I think we all have an idea of what type of person with whom we'd like to spend time; type of personality, type of appearance, type of friend, lover, confidante... But sometimes we assume that our "perfect match" is one thing, when in fact we come to realize by spending time with someone that we didn't realize all that went into our "perfect match".
I've come to realize what I would like in a friend, companion and lover based on past successful and failed relationships. I know I need someone who is kind, patient, down-to-earth, appreciates the little things in life, is not superficial, has perspective on the important things in life, is romantic, loving, affectionate, yet is also strong, independent and not ashamed of her intelligence. Someone who draws on her inner strength and moral compass to get her through life, yet also is not afraid to give in to love and romance and not afraid to let herself be vulnerable to the love and affection of a man in her life and yet not afraid to let herself trust others.
While this may be my "ideal match" I envision now, I truly believe I will know her when I meet her.

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I have a moustache
Body Hair:
Average
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Disappearing
Body Art:
A tattoo or two
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Humour; Self-control
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Cuisine:
Chinese; South African
Music Preferences:
Rock
Books:
Non-fiction
TV Shows:
News; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows
Movie Preferences:
Comedy; Romance
Interests:
Cooking; Photography
Sports:
Cricket; Rugby; Sailing; Scuba diving
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
I mostly use my TV for news or sport
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on video
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I'm an only child
Family Closeness:
I don't have any family!
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
Not at all
Reading:
I enjoy it
Likes & Dislikes
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream Home:
Beach house
Religious Attendance:
Only on religious holidays
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Politics:
Very Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Curious; Optimistic