In His Own Words
About Him
First off, I don't consider myself to be unattractive but being on a site like this does expose one to 'evaluation'. I'm just a normal guy looking for someone I find physically attractive and who I can connect with. Let's not kid ourselves guys, that's why we have pics up here.
First up, not looking to get 'married'. That's a decision made between two people but I'm not closed to the idea! I'm looking for a mature person (irrespective of age), an equal who I'll adore physically and emotionally. I'm looking for a 'mans man' who I can be myself with, experience new things with and who'll appreciate me for who I am.
Unfortunately (or fortunately) I'm an idealist (bit of a romantic) but realise that we all come with a history (who doesn't) But its more about where you're headed than where you've been.
I'm loving, honest and loyal. I have a crazy (sometimes dark) sense of humor, enjoy intimacy, good conversations or "chilling" on the couch. I enjoy being a lover AND a best friend. The frivolous things in life have their place as do the meaningful and lasting.
I know how to have fun and I know how to be serious.
I'm looking for the guy who could possibly be the one (it's the romantic again heheh) I don't believe in the perfect guy, but I have to believe someone is out there, and I'd like him to give me that chance. I know who I am and I'm comfortable with myself - although everyday finds us meeting new challenges. I'm versatile, straight acting and straight forward, if you are looking for a fem please don't respond.... (sorry ladies - no offense intended) Not looking for a one night stand or to just get laid either ...not just yet anyway hahahaha
About His Ideal Match
This is a little more difficult. I'd have to say it's in the eyes :-) Physical attraction is a must but I also believe this is in the eye of the beholder. Like I said, I'm not an unattractive guy but I am a guy, looking for a guy who is comfortable being a guy...a good body doesn't hurt either :-)
A man who is gentle but strong, isn't only about the sex (but...heheh) open and kind, straight acting and someone who can love and be loved. He must be able to have fun and be able to have deep conversations that can last all night or at least parts of it ;-) ;-)
Someone who is not full of themselves or so arrogant that there is only space for himself in his life, or so insecure that be borders on overly needy. Yes, we all need someone but he must have confidence (although shyness can be a very cute sometimes) He must be down to earth and looking for the 'real' things in life and in a partner - wherever it may be.
Someone who can cuddle and be affectionate and sensitive (but this does not mean talking about our feelings all the time!!!!) when he needs to be and who will allow me to love him the same way. I'm looking for the real deal, or someone who is prepared to at least try.
He must be gentle but firm. Preferably not someone into the whole 'scene'. Also, he must understand that I have a lot of passion for my career and would not try 'compete' with work (this goes both ways). Ideally he would also have goals and be career driven, he must have some aim in life. People do not 'complete' each other, we compliment who we are and could be.
Sorry guys, but I'm not attracted to fems or someone 'streetwise' looking for cheap thrills.
In Short, that real guy out there looking for someone special...(if he exists)
If I do contact you, I would love to hear from you, even if it is to say you don't find me attractive in some way. (One liners can be so impersonal) Just take a few seconds to get back to me. I will offer the same courtesy :-)
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
23 - 51 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite Colour: |
Brown |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Romance |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Stilt house in the jungle |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
