In His Own Words
About Him
I'm an easy to get along with kinda guy, enjoy simple things in life, humble, down to earth, respectful, laugh a lot, and always strive to bring happiness to those around me (family and friends). I enjoy spending time with loved ones (family, mostly - and hosting friends, occasionally) - but I also like to reserve some 'me-time' to reflect on life's experiences. Bit of a traditionalist in believing a man's role to be that of provider, and a woman's role as home-builder and household organiser. I read a lot - and like to keep myself informed on local and international political and economic developments via dstv news channels, internet, newpapers, etc. Love international and domestic travelling. I'm a bit of a sports fanatic - love watching soccer, tennis and cricket. Also love music - mainly jazz (mainstream and contemporary), old school r'n'b/soul and a bit of contemporary gospel. Love doing fun things together with my partner - cooking (yeah, I'm no slouch in the kitchen), watching dvd's, and going out to comedy shows, live jazz shows, theatre shows, and movies (occasionally) - but above all I enjoy spending time with my better half relaxing at home cuddling, whispering 'sweet-nothings' to each other. I loooove kids. I work hard, I play hard, I am fun, and I am naughty, sometimes - if you know what I mean - wink, wink!!!
I'm here looking for a companion in this journey called life - a lover, partner, friend, and soulmate - all rolled into one. Needs to be a person who absolutely values happiness, fun-loving, respectful, and a good communicator. A happy somebody that can handle a mature discussion, and not turn everything into an argument. Must love kids. Must love travelling. Those are just the basics - the rest will fall into place when we meet, and when we both decide to embark on this wonderful life-long journey.
About His Ideal Match
My ideal match is what I've described in the last paragraph above. If those basics are there - then we will get along, have fun, and have a bright future together. Please - not a grumpy person, please God - not another '40 year-old teenager'........must be able to communicate clearly if unhappy about something. An emotionally mature, independent, intelligent, educated, career woman - and above all, a LADY (hhayi uhlanya), cool, calm and collected, warm-hearted, and beautiful inside out!!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Lyndhurst), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Zulu | |
Other Languages: |
English; Sesotho; Swati; Xhosa | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
28 - 38 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Brown | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | ||
Home Language: |
English; Ndebele; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swati; Tswana; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Boxing; Cricket; Pool; Snooker; Soccer; Table Tennis; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |