In His Own Words
About Him
I am seeking someone with whom i can share affection and laughter and develop an emotional bond. A muse to help with writers block wouldn't be half bad either.. :-)
Now for the, 'its complicated bit'.....I am a committed father to my young daughter, who is the light of my life. I co-parent her with her mother and although our relationship is amicable we understand that we are no longer a couple. It is however frustrating to feel I have much to give and experience and yet in many ways am watching life pass by. Should something develop, you would be most welcome to verify this directly.
I am a self employed development consultant (you can ask me later what that actually means), well read and have to write a fair amount although at times original thought can be a painful process in creation. I have attempted to save the world a number of times now, but have been surprisingly unsuccessful. This has developed a little cynical streak in my outlook, but fear not, nothing too dark. I love to laugh, first at myself but after that its all fair game. My work does mean I travel a fair amount with clients and jobs throughout the country, region and in Europe.
I like socialising to a point, but once that point is reached there is nothing like some quiet alone time to regenerate my energy.
I enjoy a good book, and movies (and a good Netflix binge from time to time).
I am Interested in a range of topics, including economics, sociology, technology and psychology (particularly how these aspects combine in shaping the future) and am a bit of a sci-fi nerd.
Music is important in my life. I have eclectic tastes, winch range from Pearl Jam to Chopin. Oh yes.....I'm learning to play the guitar at 50. I'm so bad, but its good fun.
I Love good wine, (bit of a snob in this regard, I'm afraid) and good food. Preferably together. Mix this with good company and that's a great evening.
About His Ideal Match
If you are fun, enlightened, serious and spontaneous, understand the good things in life but still have something of an open mind that would perfect.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Hillcrest (Kloof), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") | |
Body Type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later; Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Mauritius; South Africa; Canada; Chile; Netherlands; Australia; New Zealand | ||
Location: |
Mauritius; Réunion; Seychelles; South Africa; Argentina; Denmark; Netherlands | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 57 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 185cm (6' 0.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; French; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Kindness; Mercy; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Jazz; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Painting; Photography; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |