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About Him

Country of Origin:
Ask me later
Location:
Ballito (Zimbali), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
50
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
181cm (5' 11.3")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Greying
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Ask me later
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; English
Religion:
Ask me later
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Technical Diploma
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
27 - 42
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
150cm (4' 11.1") - 180cm (5' 10.9")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Marital Status:
Any
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Hmmm tough one but I will give you a taste of where I'm coming from and you can decide. As I get older I find the whole love thing more and more frustrating, as a kid love is this exciting beautiful romantic notion of everlasting happiness. Then as a young adult you make connections and walk on cloud nine high on life till you bump into the reason for your happiness at a bar with another woman/man. Entering your 30's you feel more educated and realistic about love and look for someone to settle down with, we enter the period of marriage and children and face a whole new set of challenges and realise once again this is not the fairy tale we originally signed up for, so as we move on through our 30's and 40's face divorces and new jobs, challenging economies, maintenance and bonds. People stay in shitty marriages most of the time for kids or money, or for fear of being alone at 30 something... And so in a technology driven society where hook ups and cheating have been made easier than ever I find myself turning to online dating in the hopes of meeting a decent someone and while I believe the chances run the same percentages as winning the lotto,lol. Apparently people don't meet organically anymore so here I am... I am peaceful, sporty, successful, romantic and compassionate. I work hard, and live a good, honest life. I love road trips, the bush, exercising and weekends away and I am full of adventure. I am looking for my "SOUL MATE" if that is possible. I am lacking nothing, besides a decent girl with or without children I can build a new life with.

About His Ideal Match

My ideal match is someone who can forgo the romantic chemically imbalanced first part of the relationship where we all try to impress and attract our new mates and skip directly to 2 years down the line where you actually start getting to know the real person, the time when you finally feel comfortable to be who you actually are. Im looking for someone REAL not an idea of someone. Tired of investing my time and heart on people only to realise that despite being told what a perfect partner you are and how honest and faithful you were that in actual fact you are a lying cheating selfish "bitch" that I just wasted 3 years of my life with. Please no heavy smokers or drinkers. An outdoor person (as in nature) would be great compared to a pub type of girl. So I would rather prefer an introvert to an extrovert...I have been married previously, do have kids, which I don't see that much as I would like, as they live overseas and therefore this needs to be understood. I don't mind at all if you have kids (or want kids). Slim girls between the ages of 27 and 42 only. I also don't cross the racial barrier. (Please respect my wishes).
I have to write this in capital letters: I AM NOT HERE TO PLAY E-MAIL PING PONG! DON'T CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE LONELY OR BORED AND HAVE NO INTENTION TO MEET! IF I DON'T HEAR FROM YOU FROM YOU IN A DAY, I WILL DELETE YOU AND BLOCK YOU.I HAVE NO TIME TO WASTE!

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
A tattoo or two
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
White
Date Activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee
Cuisine:
Fine Dining; French; Greek; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi
Music Preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40
Books:
Crime; History; Non-fiction; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Documentaries; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows
Movie Preferences:
Action; Adult; Horror; Mystery
Sports:
Backgammon; Boxing; Fishing; Hiking; Running; Shooting; Snorkeling; Walking; Weight training
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I work only a few hours a week
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on video
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I'm an only child
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I enjoy it
Dietary Restrictions:
Lactose-free; Sugar-free
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power
The Deep Stuff
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
Conservative
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Jaded