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Online: Wednesday

Modified: 2 weeks ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
Germany
Location:
Ballito (Zimbali), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
49
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
181cm (5' 11.3")
Body Type:
Stocky
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Greying
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
German
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; English
Religion:
Ask me later
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Technical Diploma
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
25 - 42
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
150cm (4' 11.1") - 180cm (5' 10.9")
Body Type:
Slim; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Hmmm tough one but I will give you a taste of where I'm coming from and you can decide. As i get older I find the whole love thing more and more frustrating, as a kid love is this exciting beautiful romantic notion of everlasting happiness. Then as a young adult you make connections and walk on cloud nine high on life till you bump into the reason for your happiness at a bar with another woman/man. Entering your 30's you feel more educated and realistic about love and look for someone to settle down with, we enter the period of marriage and children and face a whole new set of challenges of cheating , abusive or drunk spouses and realise once again this is not the fairy tale we originally signed up for, so as we move on through our 30's and face divorces and new jobs , challenging economies , maintenance and bonds where do we find ourselves in terms of real love? People stay in shitty marriages for kids or money, or toxic relationships for fear of being alone at 30 something in an ever dwindling dating pool of divorcees, drunks, abusers, etc. The problem here is where you find the most damaged toxic people who have come out of doomed relationships/ marriages and now have to pretend to be these amazing individuals just to attract attention. Those are the worst sort of people the ones who have perfected the art of lying, cheating and betrayal. And so in a technology driven society where hook ups and cheating have been made easier than ever I find myself turning to online dating in the hopes of meeting a decent someone and while I believe the chances run the same percentages as winning the lotto what other choices do I have? Apparently people don't meet organically anymore so here I am. A fairly good looking, sporty, successful, romantic individual (but not your average type of Joe Soap) who is looking for his soul mate, who should love nature, museums, flea markets, road trips,exercising etc. as much as I do. I am a bit of an "old school" type of man and will always open the car door for you but is still masculine.

About His Ideal Match

My ideal match is someone who can forgo the romantic chemically imbalanced first part of the relationship where we all try to impress and attract our new mates and skip directly to 2 years down the line where you actually start getting to know the real person, the time when you finally feel comfortable to be who you actually are and release the asshole within. (Whoa! we all have the capacity to be assholes so it's not just a guy thing) In other words to be completely honest and transparent about who you really are. Im looking for someone REAL not an idea of someone. Tired of investing my time and heart on people only to realise that despite being told what a perfect partner you are and how honest and faithful you were that in actual fact you are a lying cheating selfish moron that I just wasted 3 years of my life with. Please no heavy smokers or drinkers. An outdoor person (as in nature) would be great compared to a pub type of girl. So I would rather prefer an introvert to an extrovert...I have been married previously, do have kids, which I don't see that much as I would like, as they live overseas and therefore this needs to be understood. I don't mind at all if you have kids (or want kids). Slim girls between the ages of 25 and 42 only. I also don't cross the racial barrier. (please respect my wishes).
I have to write this in capital letters: I AM NOT HERE TO PLAY E-MAIL PING PONG! DON'T CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE LONELY OR BORED AND HAVE NO INTENTION TO MEET!

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
A tattoo or two
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
White
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee
Cuisine:
Fine Dining; French; Greek; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi
Music Preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40
Books:
Crime; History; Non-fiction; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Documentaries; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows
Movie Preferences:
Action; Adult; Horror; Mystery
Sports:
Backgammon; Boxing; Fishing; Hiking; Running; Shooting; Snorkeling; Walking; Weight training
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I work only a few hours a week
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on video
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I'm an only child
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Reading:
I enjoy it
Dietary Restrictions:
Lactose-free; Sugar-free
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power
The Deep Stuff
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
Conservative
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Jaded