In Her Own Words
About Her
Why should people get to know me? Being a rule breaker there is no reason that you SHOULD get to know me. When you tell me what I SHOULD do I will most often go and do the exact opposite. However there are plenty of reasons as to why you might LIKE to get to know me. I see the world differently being on the spectrum (Aspergers). No I do not memorize the telephone directory or count my fruit loops. I question and challenge and observe. This world is a wondrous place and I generally look at it from a very different angle and have a pretty fun sense of humour. I am single mother to a fantabulous 9-year old, a rabid Labrador, 2 rather needy cats and 2 hamsters with a depressingly short life span. This is a package deal seeing as my ex-husband moved abroad many moons ago. On that subject I've been divorced going on 8 years so the only baggage I have are the bags under my eyes (and they are designer). I don't need someone to complete me - I have been quite content for many years, but I have come to realise that I very much would like to share this life that I have with someone. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.
About Her Ideal Match
Describing my ideal match? That implies that you need to tick x-amount of boxes. I am not a box ticker. I go by my gut and do not have the list of must-have's to be able to eliminate you or not. If you are happy in your skin we are halfway there.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Helderberg (Somerset West), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Stellenbosch (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
37 - 52 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power |
Work Aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Loft in the city |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Honesty: |
Extremely |