37 – Pietermaritzburg (Midlands), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

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Online: A week ago

Modified: 16 March 2017

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Pietermaritzburg (Midlands), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Star Sign:
167cm (5' 5.7")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Home Language:
Other Languages:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, living with me
Want Children:
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Occasional Drinker
Some University / College
Executive / Management

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Anywhere in the World
Age Range:
36 - 44
Star Sign:
169cm (5' 6.5") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller
Body Type:
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky
Hair Colour:
Eye Colour:
Has a Photo:
Home Language:
Other Languages:
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Marital Status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Want Children:
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Political
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

Why me? Because I am a happy, fun, mildly crazy (in a good way) person who can open beer, hold a conversation, debate world affairs, win a pub quiz, shoot (what, I will not say), be ladylike or ride a motorbike (not allowed to do that unsupervised anymore). I know the words to most ABBA songs (don't judge me, they are eternal earworms), I know which forks to use.. ok, going to stop now as I am annoying myself!

I work from wherever I can use a laptop and get online. I have a high pressure job which I love (most days) and is frightfully flexible. I also do a lot of freelance work and obviously need something other than work to fill my time!

I am outgoing, a little shy, open minded, honest, very loyal, very passionate and fairly intelligent. I guess - a bubbling cauldron of contradictions! Oh, and I laugh a lot! I am tougher than nails and soft hearted: I've been told I am a marshmallow wrapped in steel.

I have had a highly eventful life (think gunfire, madcap adventures, terrifying comedic moments - thank heavens it is leveling out now). I have done and or experienced most of what life has to offer - good and bad - and am the better for it.

I was once very nearly squished by a mad bull elephant.. how many girls do you know who've out run an elly?

I have a fantastic son. I love my friends, laughing, reading, exploring, entertaining, the outdoors and photography. I'm comfortable in jeans or ball gowns.. but I will probably end the evening with mud on the hem and my heels in my hands!

I keep busy, but I also enjoy quiet evenings with a glass of red laughing hysterically and talking about anything else that comes up.

I'm not one to follow a trend and, for example, I am not a gym bunny (most days I am convinced my trainer may be trying to kill me) Juice bars, pilates, yoga.. not my scene.. Think of me as more of a weights, cardio and boxing girl.. That kind of sums up my personality, I don't have time for pretenses ... I prefer reality and the undoctored truth.

About Her Ideal Match

Hmmm... I suppose if you have a job and a pulse, that should do (and yes, I think I am funny)!

Ultimately, I am looking for a positive relationship but I am not in a rush. I like to get to know someone instead of rushing in blindly and if I make more friends along the way, that's great. I am not afraid of distance and am the sort who makes any situation work well.

I am not clingy or possessive. Life is what it is and it is what you make it.

I think many relationships fail because people have a set definition of what a relationship is and try to force every relationship to fit in that box (down boy, I am never going to be cool with you having a stable of slags :-), really!). To work, a relationship needs to be defined by the people involved, it needs to be flexible and fluid and communication needs to be present at all times.

I want someone who is brave enough to say what he thinks and feels, intelligent, easy going and likes children.

Someone who will be my anchor and let me be theirs - so that when one takes a leap of faith, they need not worry about crashing and burning.... and of course, I insist upon, the all important fireworks!

Someone who is mature enough to deal with issues as they arise and who will take as much interest in my life, as I take in theirs. Someone who is not afraid to show affection, at home or in public.

Realistically, everyone has their baggage but what counts is how you handle it.

I am here because I am tired of being played. I am not here to be a one night stand, a fling or cheap thrill... so if that's what you want... thanks for reading and good bye. Sorry, but I am NOT free porn!

Deal breakers:
Nastiness, players, bad manners, drug or alcohol addictions, violence, dislike of children, no income, criminal record... Oh, and if you are looking for an ATM to finance your dependencies - you can kiss my delightfully (un)hairy butt!

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
I have none
Hair Style:
Long; Curly; Wild; It has its moods
Body Art:
A tattoo or two
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; German; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rock; World
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; War
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Writing books
Backgammon; Boxing; Camping; Field Hockey; Fishing; Horse Riding; Polo; Pool; Rugby; Scuba diving; Shooting; Snorkeling; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Weight training
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Time at Work:
I DO have a bed in my office!
Pastimes of choice:
Time Online:
I'm on several hours a day
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
There's nothing better
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Dream Home:
Castle in Scotland
Religious Attendance:
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic