In His Own Words
About Him
I guess that each person will have their own reasons for wanting or not wanting to get to know me.
One good reason is that I am deeply appreciative of the really important things in life, such as delectable food and wine shared convivially. Or a midnight snack with Milo, a cuddle and intimacy!
I sincerely appreciate profound honesty and wisdom that supports my growth; I really enjoy chatting and I crave serious conversation; I am playful and sensual; It is my nature to support and I believe caressing heals; I enjoy giving comfort and I naturally consider others; I apply my mind when my opinion is required; I respect the principle of reciprocity; I find my nourishment in my Self, Nature and Simple Things; I am more in my element one on one and in small groups like dinner parties; I prefer simplicity and believe that the really important things are free; I do plant trees for other's shade.
To find somebody that chooses to be with you, to love through thick and thin - to be in it together, is a gift of magnitude that I cannot describe.
After a personal winter follows spring - a time to expand my world, meet people, develop appropriately enriching friendships, simply hang, do fun things; and most importantly I want to find the spark - the one -whom feels just right and together create the life to live for.
About His Ideal Match
It is said that friendship, love and intimacy, when felt deeply, is like the stillness of the deep ocean to the superficial storm.
Perhaps, a relationship build on values and virtues that has stood the test of time, will support friendship capable of sailing through life's storms.
Anyway, I hope to find somebody with whom these things can be figured out!
"Ideal match" may be based on the notion of romantic love; I hope to share in something more concrete.
If one can be idealistic - it all depends on the person and the feeling that it is right - then the following will definitely get my enthusiasm going:
1. I am really attracted to creative and intelligent woman
2. I enjoy producing food and with an interested partner we could together build something special along permaculture lines...for the long term lifestyle
3. If a dog (especially a German Shepherd) likes me, then I am a dogs best friend. I cannot imagine my life on the long term without animals
4. I am based in Stellenbosch, but I have a lot of freedom during the work year, and ideally my partner would be able to travel with me - perhaps also be able to work from wherever to enjoy another special day and miss traffic rushes
5. I am particularly fond of Namibia and plan to visit my family and the country from time to time..be fun if you share some Nam under your skin
6. I enjoy children and I work in education and whole child development. For various reasons I do not have my own and that is OK for me
7. I am not into religion. So not. I respect that it is important for others, but it's not for me. I prefer the paths within and I find that Yoga and Buddhism tend to resonate for me. I am interested in Tantra from within a committed relationship
Thank you for reading. If you see a possible friendship, perhaps even a potential match, then I look forward to hearing from you.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Heidelberg, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
37 - 57 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Yoga |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Camping; Cricket; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Pool; Rugby; Snorkeling; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |