In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm interesting, sparkly, serious, fun to be with, curious, and funny when I get the chance. I believe growth never stops, and possibilities are endless. I love the wilderness and silence. I love conversation, serious and playful. I want to do new things, or old things I haven't done for a long time. The sea and rivers, mountains and forests are places that nurture me. But so do other things, like theatre, music, movies, reading, poetry, and singing. I love travelling, but not getting enough right now. I'm also sensual in the many meanings of that word. I love dancing and often do on my own at home. I'm quite intellectual but not stuck in my head. I believe the body is an incredible source and site of meaning. I write, always. Sometimes draw, sometimes paint. Read. I have an incredibly capacity for joy. And I can be grumpy! I am who I am...and I guess I can live with that.
About Her Ideal Match
I would enjoy getting together with someone who is warm, self-reflective, energetic, funny, optimistic, thoughtful, playful, and open. I would enjoy it if you loved being in wild places and doing stuff (hiking, swimming, exploring, walking, breathing, talking, eating, etc) in those places. You could be unconventional and even eccentric. I hope you'd be emotionally robust and self-sufficent, and able to connect in a deeper than superficial place. I would also love it if you could make me laugh at myself, and didn't take yourself too seriously. Because I can be too serious sometimes! Alive and complex conversation important. Good tactile sense would go down very well. That goes with sensuality in the wide sense of responsiveness to the senses. Being connected to body, not stuck in the head. A sense of the absurd would be fabulous! Masculine but not having to assert that all the time. Not self-important. Direct. Creative...but that does not have to mean being in the arts, because creativity is sometimes just how one lives. Something like all of that, but of course with the bits of stuff we all carry some of. You could also be totally different from what I've described...and I could still really enjoy being with you. Wow. Actually, whoever you are, that's ok.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
72 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Italian | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Shows: |
Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Singing; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Bodyboarding; Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Dancesport; Hiking; Horse Riding; Rock climbing; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Other |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |
