In Her Own Words
About Her
I like to think that I am finally at a stage in my life where I have done my time in the trenches, spent too much, drank too much, overindulged in drugs, alcohol and rock 'n roll, and finally settled at a place where I can just be me. Some might say that makes me boring, but for me, its about practising midfulness, and simply allowing the days of my life to evolve as intended by the universe.
So why am I here you are probably asking? To meet people, for no other reason, not marriage, not for long term possibilities, not to date or any of the other exhaustive list of reasons, simply to meet a like minded person. I have recently left a very senior position in an organisation to run my own business, I believe I am intelligent and savvy in business. I am financially independent, I enjoy the choice that having money offers, but it no longer defines me.
I love eating out and socialising in small crowds, I am over the 'clubbing' and loud music phase and am simply savouring my own personal space right now. I dont like to be crowded. I read a lot, love massage, do yoga and enjoy a good belly laugh with friends. I am uncomplicated and cannot do high maintenance, needy people.
I am told by my friends that I am a little 'alternative' in my views on life, possibly thats because they are mainstream, who knows?
About Her Ideal Match
Independence both financial and personal is an absolute must in my books, a man, with an acute sense of self, who loves his own sapce as much as he loves the company of others. A man who is in touch with his softness and his strength. Who is intellectually minded, but equally a bit fringe.
I dont need to be wined and dined, I do need to be able to have an engaging conversation with you, you need to be funny, and make me laugh, and be comfortable when I need my own space and time. I believe a physical attraction is a key ingredient in the early days and then getting to know each others souls the deal breaker. I do believe in a soul connection and love at first sight, but equally, am willing to go the distance and give it a try.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Claremont), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Wild; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; Reggae |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing absolutely nothing |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |