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NotaBarbie

54 – Southern Suburbs (Claremont), Cape Town, South Africa

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In Her Own Words

About Her

I like to think that I am finally at a stage in my life where I have done my time in the trenches, spent too much, drank too much, overindulged in drugs, alcohol and rock 'n roll, and finally settled at a place where I can just be me. Some might say that makes me boring, but for me, its about practising midfulness, and simply allowing the days of my life to evolve as intended by the universe.

So why am I here you are probably asking? To meet people, for no other reason, not marriage, not for long term possibilities, not to date or any of the other exhaustive list of reasons, simply to meet a like minded person. I have recently left a very senior position in an organisation to run my own business, I believe I am intelligent and savvy in business. I am financially independent, I enjoy the choice that having money offers, but it no longer defines me.

I love eating out and socialising in small crowds, I am over the 'clubbing' and loud music phase and am simply savouring my own personal space right now. I dont like to be crowded. I read a lot, love massage, do yoga and enjoy a good belly laugh with friends. I am uncomplicated and cannot do high maintenance, needy people.

I am told by my friends that I am a little 'alternative' in my views on life, possibly thats because they are mainstream, who knows?

About Her Ideal Match

Independence both financial and personal is an absolute must in my books, a man, with an acute sense of self, who loves his own sapce as much as he loves the company of others. A man who is in touch with his softness and his strength. Who is intellectually minded, but equally a bit fringe.

I dont need to be wined and dined, I do need to be able to have an engaging conversation with you, you need to be funny, and make me laugh, and be comfortable when I need my own space and time. I believe a physical attraction is a key ingredient in the early days and then getting to know each others souls the deal breaker. I do believe in a soul connection and love at first sight, but equally, am willing to go the distance and give it a try.

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About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Southern Suburbs (Claremont), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
54
Star Sign:
Virgo
Height:
173cm (5' 8.1")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Open to possibilities
Have Children:
Yes, living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Comfortable

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
40 - 50
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
175cm (5' 8.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Long; Wild; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
Several tattoos
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
A cruiser
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Black
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks
Music Preferences:
Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; Reggae
Reading:
There's nothing better
Books:
Business; Crime; Non-fiction; Self-help
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels
Movie Frequency:
Never
Movie Preferences:
Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance
Interests:
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Shopping
Sport Involvement:
Not involved at all
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Doing absolutely nothing
Time Online:
I'm on several hours a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
Not at all
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power; Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious Attendance:
I'm non-practicing
Dream Home:
Beach house
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement Plans:
Sipping margaritas on a beach
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Curious
Honesty:
Extremely