In Her Own Words
About Her
So, maybe we are a 80% or above match which popped my photo onto your screen, or maybe I saw your photo and dropped you a line. Either way here you are reading my profile in an attempt to figure out if the computer generated match, or my dropped line, is worth persuing. Well in response I'm going to do my very best to give you my own insight of who I am in the hopes that I may just know myself better than anyone else.
I've adjusted well to life now that I'm in my 40's. What's done is done and there is no point harping on about regrets. If anything, it's wonderful to have lapses in memory so the bad is gone and the good is conveniently re-lived. I no longer have issues with my folks or my siblings. Those I love are wonderful and accepted on their own terms, those I don't have been cast aside. It's not ruthless, it's realistic after 40 years it is what it is. I am at peace with my interesting past which has turned out better than if I'd planned it despite what rational educated beliefs had thought.
There are 4 laws in the country that I habitually break; traffic laws, by-laws and the other 2 I don't remember right now. This does make me a self rightous hippocrite and I'm ok with that.
I've been known to tell a lie but not on important things. I'm completly harmless when asleep and I cook.
Love nature, SUP weekly, enjoy camping, comedy, eating out, meeting people, glass work, gardening, reading, writing, laughing and Afrika Burn.
I think it's easier to figure someone else by talking on the phone than reading emails, and meeting in person is obviously first prize but before we can dance we must hear the music. Drop me a line, I will not ignore you.
P.S. The really bad grammer part is from an ABBA song :)
About Her Ideal Match
Know thyself. It's really important that my ideal match is comfortable with himself and honest. Life is an individual game, a man must be happy with what he has organized around him.
I'm still trying to figure out the question of do we own each other when we're in a relationship but do not see myself in an "open relationship". I'm looking for someone to spend a big chunk of my life with so it must be special. My ideal match I'd hope is passionate and kind.
LOL, I'd hate for my ideal match to be a lazy slob, what would that say about me?
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg (Cape town), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
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- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
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