In Her Own Words
About Her
Cushion hugging, feet rubbing, over worked, woollies dining single mom in need of 'selective' rescuing. Hou van lekker lag, gesels..
Wil graag als kan deel met iemand spesiaal en iemand saam wie 'n mens 'n paadjie kan stap. Ek hou van bederf en dis altyd lekker as jy en die ander persoon gemaklik by mekaar voel, nie mekaar afkraak en rede soek om te baklei nie. Niemand is perfek nie, ek ook nie en soek iemand wat my sal aanvaar soos ek is (warts and all).
Respek en lojaliteit is nie onderhandelbaar nie. I am very spontaneous, easy going, caring, sometimes loud and an extrovert with a great sense of humor. At home in the bush camping, as much as in a 5* hotel. Loves spoiling myself at a spa.
Never been married, thus no baggage or ex's, family oriented, have a child who I love and spoil to bits. Love our dog.. and try to get him out over weekends. When I have something on my mind I clean, that way I think things through (and get the house clean at the same time).
I live a simple, happy and comfortable life. I am grateful for what I have and avoid negative, draining people. My motto in life (ok I have a couple)... Life is a theater, pick your front row.
A bit old fashioned with a twist of new mixed in for fun. I prefer God to be at the steering wheel of my life, and not a spare wheel in case of an emergency.
I'm NOT the hunter, if you want woman to do the running, flash cash in a strip joint. Want to know where you stand, easy, just ask.
Want to know more, ask I only bite in self defense ;)
About Her Ideal Match
Someone I can feel comfortable with, someone that I can look up to, have an intelligent conversation with, a good laugh a great kisser who smells nice and could be my best friend. Someone that takes care in their appearance and personal hygiene.
Ek wil veilig voel en weet ons sal beskerm word. Jy mag bang wees vir 'n spinnekop, jy mag net nie harder skree as ek nie ;)
Ek wil nie net 'n opsie wees nie, maar 'n prioriteit. Someone I can share good and bad times with, someone emotionally stable, reliable and independent. Someone that is done jolling, clubbing and doesn't hang out in pubs.
Someone who feels ready to enter into a long term commitment and who can express his feelings and emotions. Communication is very important to me. Not too much baggage please, must be over your ex. Yes it would be a problem if you want to stay friends with single females that you met on the site, unless you fine with me also keeping my options open.
If you into drugs, alcohol abuse (actually any form of abuse), if you haven't seen the inside of a church in 2013... pls save me the effort of deleting your message.
I don't tolerate jealousy. I've never cheated on anyone and expect the same. Age difference of no more than 5 years, no 1ns / [removed] / summ / cf, I'm sure there is profiles that will accommodate your unusual requests, not this one so pls don't waste my time.
Ideally I would like to fall in love, stay in love and grow old with someone. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and for me personally it shines from the inside out.
It takes time for me to fall in love, thus I need someone that is serious about a long term commitment. A father figure my child can be proud of and you should love children.
So if you are also looking for someone to be silly with, just be yourself with... you know what to do next ;)
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Outgoing; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Mystery; Religious; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Bowling; Camping; Dancesport; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Rugby; Snorkeling; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Extremely |