In His Own Words
About Him
...because if you don't get to know me, you won't get to know me. If you simply regard me from a distance, you'll think I'm full of it. I'm not, really.
Mostly I want to be with & near you. I want to listen to you speak, because you have so much to say that is worth listening to, if only I would take the time. And I would.
Sometimes I'll learn from you, and sometimes you from me. But the learning won't be as important as the listening. The best thing I have to give is myself, and I want to give it to someone who will appreciate, treasure & nurture the gift.
Thing is: I want to be your hero - please don't settle for me. Or tell me I'm number one in your top twenty. Or try to add me on to the life that you have now. I won't fit in. We'll have to build something new, of our own, together.
About His Ideal Match
Stil, intelligent, goed gebou, sportief. Ek hou van donker hare en blou oë. Wil graag met jou oor enigiets kan gesels. Dit moet genoeg wees vir jou om by my te wees en my hand vas te hou. Jy moet my ander helfte wees, en jou ouers kan nie saamkom nie: dit gaan (meestal) net ek, jy en ons kinders, wat ons godly gaan grootmaak, wees. Ek sal jou liefhê met alles wat ek het, sonder om enigiets terug te verwag, behalwe dat jy my sal liefhê met alles wat jy het, sonder om enigiets terug te verwag, behalwe...
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Brits (Hartbeespoort), North-West, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
None (Bald) | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
PhD / Post Doctoral | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 40 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 172cm (5' 7.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Grey | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Investing; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sports: |
Cycling; Hiking; Running; Scuba diving; Surf skiing/kayaking; Triathlon |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Italian; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Honesty: |
Extremely |