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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Randburg (Randpark Ridge), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
35
Star Sign:
Gemini
Height:
173cm (5' 8.1")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Separated
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, living with me
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Regular
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Technical Diploma
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
23 - 33
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Slightly important
Ethnicity:
Asian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Occasional; Regular; Heavy
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I'm easy going, hassle free, a little crazy (in a good way), funny, intelligent, attractive... erg, I hate these self promotion boxes. I'm a human being and an empathetic one at that. I have flaws just the same as everyone else, perhaps more than some and less than others. It's a matter of opinion. I have my vices as well. I have some pretty commendable traits and virtues. We all do.
I'm trying this out because I'm tired of living in this little box called life not being able to reach out to anyone. People see only what they want to see and assume the worst these days but that's not surprising with the country we live in and the rides we've all been taken on. For a moment I'll wear myself inside out and take a chance.
I do have opinions. None of which are forced on others and if anything I'd like to hear an opposite side to them. It helps put a new perspective on a preconception. I love learning new things.
I accidentally set my status to single without thinking because that's the life I've been living. I'm separated but not by court order. It's a mutual decision. My wife, and I use the term very... very loosely, has her boyfriend and life. We share our son who lives with me. The rest is a story for another time. Red wine? I'm not out to prove anything or keep the world happy. I don't take very much personally. I think everyone would be pretty miserable if what people thought influenced who they are. I'm a good person. I'm quite contrary to what you know as typical. I'm old fashioned in some ways, and progressive in others. I do... believe in love. I also know it's a fine line between love and infatuation. One will dissipate, grow casual, become run of the mill and fade completely. The other.. well, the other begins when nothing is looked for in return.
You lose nothing by getting to know me and may even be pleasantly surprised. The coin does have two sides. If you don't take the risk, I hope you find what it is they're looking for on here. Sincerely.

About His Ideal Match

Ideal match? There's such a thing? What one might like and what one might end up falling in love with may very well be two different "ideals" altogether. I'd settle for someone with her own, voice, mind, quirks. 10 fingers 10 toes kinda gal. Someone who isn't afraid to make mistakes. Someone down to earth. Someone who doesn't think the sun shines out her backside. You might think that was a little crass but on the flip side of the coin don't you know someone like that? Someone who's not afraid to get dirty. And by dirty I don't mean, imply or insinuate the bedroom. I mean a woman of the earth. If you get dirty so what, they made soap. Someone who can let their hair down. Someone who knows how to relax. Someone who feels makeup is meant to compliment features, not go all out like their face is a blank slate and they're the next Picasso. Someone with a wicked sense of humour would be a bonus, and if not, there's plenty to learn. :) Don't ask me if I think you look fat in those jeans because I WILL insist you take them off and not because the answer was yes. Someone who read that and didn't get offended or who found it rather original. Someone open minded. Someone who can have a conversation. Someone who bites their tongue often because they won't have to with me. Someone who's not afraid of her sexuality, which I see seems to be rather taboo on here but I'm putting it out there. Smart, conversational, open minded, funny... and crawls into foetal position at the mention of sex or sexuality. Not seeing it. Someone who understands the meaning of family. Someone who can communicate. Someone who can communicate. Yes that's in there twice because as insightful as one can be, sometimes psychic is required and it's really not fair. Someone who can accept humility as well as practice it. Someone who understands I'm not a priest and I'm not the devil. There's a lot here. I'm open and have a sense of humour. Even if nothing above is true. I promise to be fun to get to know.

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Obscure
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An exhibitionist
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Silly; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Other
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Rock
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology
TV Shows:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; News; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Woodworking
Sports:
Bowling; Bungee jumping; Camping; Canoeing; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Martial arts; Pool; Shooting; Sky diving; Squash; Swimming; Walking; Weight training
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Stressed
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time Online:
I'm on several hours a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
I mostly use my TV for news or sport
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on video
Sport Involvement:
Bored to death
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Dislike):
Rodent(s); Other
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Other
Religious Attendance:
Never
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Honesty:
Extremely