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Online: 28 June 2017

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Southern Suburbs (Rondebosch), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
61
Star Sign:
Leo
Height:
175cm (5' 8.9")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Above Average
Hair Colour:
Greying
Eye Colour:
Hazel
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Medical / Dental
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
30 - 45
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 167cm (5' 5.7")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home Language:
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Malay; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Tamil; Turkish; Urdu
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I loved being married and after 18 years was beginning to get the hang of it, but with incredible pain and sadness she took a different path ... and since then I seem to have met only vampires & fruitcakes! No-one too 'needy' should apply; nerdy I do not mind at all, but clingy and clutchy emotionally, no thanks!

I am above all a creative person, musically very active, I play several instruments and for the past many years I have presented a weekly blues-based radio program. I read voraciously, write when I can (some poetry, and 400+ pages so far of an amusing historical novel for which I cannot find an ending!).

I'm quite a quiet person, but can thrive in any company. I consider an evolved sense of humour to be a great asset & survival tool; my work is fairly creative too, as a doctor in an Accident & Emergency Unit, but it's incredibly draining and I need to use my free time cautiously with much focus on re-charging the batteries! I have noticed a few gray hairs recently but am told I'm attractive .... by candlelight and from a distance by slightly myopic ladies who've left their glasses at home.

I enjoy long walks, sharing a huge collection of books, music & movies, I'm a night owl, regard the kitchen as a bit of a nuisance but enjoy good food, but must warn that if you're the type who is impressed by the car a man drives, forget it!

About His Ideal Match

A lady who owns a great smile & uses it frequently! An evolved sense of humour is an absolute must; other serious criteria include someone who understands the art of conversation, has an appreciation of good company, & enjoys the quiet times as well as the pleasantly rowdy! I'd prefer a smallish lady as I'm far from overweight, but more importantly I'm looking for someone who is grateful for every blessing; predominantly a sharer, definitely NOT someone emotionally needy & looking to be rescued. She'll be a balanced person with multiple interests, particularly music; and, an absolute essential, she is open, honest, trustworthy and can maintain conscience & integrity fully intact while wearing only a lacy French thingy? There, now, that should exclude just about everyone! .... oops! And I must add, my fantasy lady MUST be someone who actually DOES what she SAYS! Now that's being completely unrealistic, right?

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I have a full beard
Body Hair:
Light
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have a hearing impairment
Hair Style:
Medium; Straight
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic
Valued Qualities:
Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Purple
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese
Music Preferences:
Blues; Folk; Jazz; Latin; Rock; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel
TV Shows:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie Preferences:
Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; War; Westerns
Interests:
Making Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Badminton; Flying / Gliding; Snooker; Soccer; Tennis; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Stressed
Time at Work:
I DO have a bed in my office!
Pastimes of choice:
Watching TV or a movie
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I mostly use my TV for news or sport
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Not any more
Family Size:
I've got a brother
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Bird(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Erotica; Intelligence; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Dream Home:
Beach house
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Politics:
Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Hopeful